tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4352498482504184002024-03-04T21:25:00.741-08:00These New Bootsa blog about changeAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.comBlogger138125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-19615228410210411532014-01-15T09:36:00.000-08:002014-01-15T10:30:11.458-08:00A city returned.New York, I've missed you, and your mad, manic, beautiful energy. Let's dance, shall we?<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-67184879867987730272014-01-10T01:35:00.001-08:002014-01-19T15:05:35.990-08:002010 - 2014I started writing here in 2010. Before that I wrote somewhere else, on another blog, now private, years before. Before that I started in a little black-covered journal bought for me in Berkeley when I was 8. I remember writing about a trip to the beach with my mother and my brother. These collections seem to act as chapters in my life.<br />
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This chapter is over. And while I would have thought there'd be something akin to a nuanced exit, a proud bow, a poignant retrospective, there isn't, just like there wasn't before. I don't know what exactly awakens the knowledge that it's time to close doors and move on, but I'm there, and there's no poetry in it. I have no more words. I've written many. I'm ready to stop for a while and see where I find myself. This blog started in June 2010 in New York, days before I landed in Port-au-Prince. It carried through to London in late 2012 - an extension of Haiti not only for what it inspired in me, but also for something found there. And then it came to find me here - Los Angeles, late 2013. That was unexpected.<br />
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Shortly after the start of this year - 2014 - I sent my last Western Union wire to Haiti - payment for exams to get Jenny through her fourth year of high school, the final obligation to a promise made. Sending her the text with the confirmation number felt different than the times before. It was something like turning the final page. Haiti is in the past. London is in the past. I'm soon returning to New York - a city unlike any other in which I see possibilities not possible before. There's closure in the circuity.<br />
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To say I've been changed between the time I started this blog and this point at which I end it simplifies the truth of it. I am the same person, and I'm not at all. I stop writing now for a reason. It's time to take account. There's so much familiar in me, and so much foreign. I am more grounded in who I am, even as I test my footing.<br />
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Thanks to all of you I've come to know throughout the experience of this mad leap of faith. There are too many to name, but I count myself bettered for having had the chance to cross paths. I wanted to find something. You helped unearth much of it. Mesi anpil. I feel closer to who I want to be for all of what this has been.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-2028006482308165732013-12-25T13:19:00.001-08:002013-12-25T18:33:45.160-08:00A Christmas present to myself.I went out and bought a journal a few days ago, not to keep my own thoughts in, but rather, to take note of the thoughts of others that speak to me. I like the idea of having something with me that, when those moments in life come a creepin' and the intellect or the soul are curious or seek nourishment, all I need do is open it, flip a few pages, and read.<br />
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But, as I well know after the experience of having so many countless things of mine misplaced, forgotten or stolen over the course of my bouncing around, anything physical can be lost. So I'm going to create a digital copy. Tumblr does the job well:<br />
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Here's to hoping I get a kick out of this when I look back years from now and see what still speaks to me, and what at one time did.<br />
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A year ago at this time I was reading <i>Shantaram</i> by Gregory David Roberts. There were a few quotes from it that resonated, but two, now, remain. One for lessons already learned, one for lessons learning:<br />
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<i>"I never told her that - what her affectionate and unconditional acceptance meant to me. So much, too much, of the good that I felt in those years of exile was locked in the prison cell of my heart: those tall walls of fear; that small, barred window of hope; that hard bed of shame. I do speak out now. I know now that when the loving, honest moment comes it should be seized, and spoken, because it may never come again. And unvoiced, unmoving, unlived in the things we declare from heart to heart, those true and real feelings wither and crumble in the remembering hand that tried too late to reach for them."</i><br />
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<i>"What characterizes the human race more, Karla once asked me, cruelty, or the capacity to feel shame for it? I thought the question acutely clever then, when I first heard it, but I'm lonelier and wiser now, and I know it isn't cruelty or shame that characterizes the human race. It's forgiveness that makes us what we are. Without forgiveness, our species would've annihilated itself in endless retributions. Without forgiveness, there would be no history. Without that hope, there would be no art, for every work of art is in some way an act of forgiveness. Without that dream, there would be no love, for every act of love is in some way a promise to forgive. We live on because we can love, and we love because we can forgive."</i><br />
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Happy holidays to all.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-84413987185130749522013-12-16T00:00:00.001-08:002013-12-25T11:31:25.045-08:00The life ideal.<div>
<i>“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”</i> - Louise Erdrich</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-88980748022667027382013-11-15T14:54:00.004-08:002013-11-16T11:33:05.545-08:00Disaster response catastrophizing - a solid point made.In respects to the <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.com/2013/11/bbc-panel-on-aid-and-philippine.html" target="_blank">panel / post yesterday</a>, I found this recent Time article by John Crowley an interesting read:<br />
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He makes a good point in respects to security and the effect that media reports can have on the willingness of aid agencies to deploy their people into a potential dangerous or predatory environment. Traditional media outlets lean heavy toward fear and sensationalism and I support any efforts to paint a picture that reflects what is actually going on rather than highlighting certain choice bits aimed at maximizing consumer attention (<i>Oh my god! That is</i> <i><b>horrible!</b>)</i>.<br />
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Haiti, as he mentions, is a good example. I remember vivid media reports with<i> (warning - graphic)</i> <a href="http://www.latimes.com/includes/soundslides/haiti/haiti.48.jpg" target="_blank">photos of bloodstained bodies gunned down in the streets of Port-au-Prince</a> <i>(source: LA Times)</i> and the general feeling that the country was an utter dystopia. That was not at all what I found when I went there. True, I arrived six months after the earthquake, once the initial panic had passed, but having spoken to foreigners who were there during the disaster and monitoring international media reports on it, they told me the violence and chaos being depicted were entirely overblown.<br />
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This is deplorable and should be called out. Balance in reporting is important, which is to say, if security is compromised and violence is happening, it is right to bring attention to it. But to focus on it in such a way as to make it seem more widespread than it is, or at the expense of highlighting the other side of what happens in any disaster - people coming together to help each other - does a disservice to all involved, and if it deters quick deployment of aid, can result in more lives lost.<br />
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That said, I still believe that it isn't wrong to call out aspects of response that seem to be repeating - delays, a lack of preparedness, etc. As I said during yesterday's BBC panel, there was time for both the Philippine government and international responders to better prepare for this storm. Unlike an earthquake, there is a lead-up. I read in news reports that gasoline shortages are widespread, power is out in critical locations (hospitals), and equipment to clear roads of debris are not available. These are logistical square ones, and while I am not on the ground and therefore cannot know exactly what the realities are, it seems to me that having ready-to-go gas reserves, generators, and equipment that reflect the potential scope of the disaster should be a given. I understand contextual sensitivity is key. Haiti pre-earthquake could never be expected to effectively handle the scope of its disaster, there simply weren't enough dumptrucks, excavators and bulldozers in the entire country to do the job that needed doing. But in the case of the Philippines, I don't know if the same holds true - it is a country intimately acquainted with all manners of natural disasters - but even if it does, the prep time allowed by a hurricane could have been used to rally international support and preparation so as to avoid or minimize very predictable post-disaster problems. Again, I'm hesitant to condemn outright a situation I am very far removed from so I am the first to admit I could be missing something important with this critique, but there is frustration over repeating lessons that do not seem to be learned, or, if they are, are being learned slowly, and incorporated in often sub-par ways.<br />
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The bit I of the article I found the most important, however, was the point made at the end:<br />
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<i>It is time to look at how effectively international organizations are supporting a normally well-oiled (but now struggling) domestic response capacity, not how international aid shipments are arriving late. It is time to ask why the cellular networks are not back and running, so that the diaspora can reunite with family and send money via mobile banking. It is time to make a request of financial institutions like Western Union to reduce their surcharges on sending money to the Philippines.</i><br />
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Preach! Not only does this point clearly highlight the essential element of local people working to solve their own problems -<a href="http://www.localfirst.org.uk/" target="_blank"> a cause close to my heart</a> - but it also shifts the focus. I've often felt that the spotlight in disasters - be they natural or man-made (war, terrorism) tends to paint local people as somewhat powerless - victims - and international aspiring do-gooders as their rescuers. This is built into the very lexicon of aid work - I've never cared for the term "beneficiary". To be fair, this isn't entirely false - international aid workers, search and rescue teams and their supporting donors do help people and save lives - but it creates a massive blindspot when it fails to accurately show how local people are not simply victims, but indeed their own rescuers, and they are that before the internationals arrive and will continue to be after the internationals leave. Supporting local actors and the systems and opportunities that allow them - the people that will remain - to do the best they can do for themselves, both via media reporting and international programming, should take front and center in any aid response. It is the local context and the people living in it that is ultimately the true determinant of whether lasting normalcy will return following any catastrophe. The international community certainly plays a valuable role, but to focus the spotlight primarily on its successes and failures - which subtly suggests that the end result ultimately rides on its shoulders - is misleading and does a great disservice to those both most affected by disaster, and most invested in recovering from it.<br />
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<a href="http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/what-we-shouldnt-be-doing-in-the-wake-of-typhoon-yolanda" target="_blank"><b>Jonathan Katz - What We Shouldn't Be Doing in the Wake of Typhoon Yolanda</b></a><br />
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Jonathan is a journalist who was on the ground when the earthquake hit Port-au-Prince and after having heard him give a talk in London this year, I agree with a lot of how he looks at things.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-41004153713056406742013-11-14T13:32:00.002-08:002013-11-15T14:57:47.396-08:00BBC panel on aid and the Philippine disaster response.Thank you to the BBC and the <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p002w559" target="_blank">World Have Your Say</a> team for giving me a chance to chime in on some past work done, what's going on now in the Philippines, and the larger world of humanitarian aid.<br />
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<a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p01l36kb" target="_blank"><b>Philippines: Analysis of an Aid Mission</b></a><br />
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Sometimes I feel like I come off as an aid skeptic - and most certainly I can be critical - but if nothing else I hope it is understood that I care about getting this stuff right, and ultimately support any effort by people and organizations genuinely interested in helping other people in need, and willing to shine an inquisitive light on themselves in the process of doing so. To echo <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.com/2013/05/haiti-retrospective.html" target="_blank">what I wrote when trying to make sense of my two years in Haiti</a>, <i>"Aid is not charismatic. It can be to untrained eyes, but under the feel-good exterior lies a much uglier core that, once revealed, makes itself very hard to like, but even harder to walk away from. No, aid is not charismatic, but it is compelling, because it represents a desire to manifest the best of ourselves: a powerful, affirming, awakened engagement with one another that comes from the marriage of human ingenuity to human compassion. In a sea of questions, that is the anchor that might just lead to an answer."</i><br />
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Right then, back to the job hunt. Any amazing LA organizations out there hiring? Let's do this!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-91898972000323172572013-10-25T01:16:00.000-07:002013-12-25T11:31:31.304-08:00Closing the circle. <div dir="ltr">
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I left London September 10th. I write this now just awake, in a newly purchased bed tucked into the corner of my brother's living room in a one bedroom apartment in Los Angeles. September 10th I woke next to <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.com/2010/09/day-83-long-overdue-update.html" target="_blank">the woman I love</a> as she hummed one of our favorite songs. It was a beautiful morning. My heart was full. My heart is full.</div>
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This is a leap of faith taken on terms not my own. I trust with it, I go the rest of the way. </div>
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<i>Born of and returned to that deepest appreciation for it existing, and my having known it.</i> <i>Thank </i><i>you. </i></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-49474080119771379832013-05-21T08:35:00.001-07:002013-10-11T15:59:59.102-07:00Haiti: A Retrospective<i>Written November 2012.</i><br />
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It was never about Haiti. It’s easy to claim the opposite,
and I occasionally do in my more self-indulgent moments because it fits the
narrative, but in those moments I’m a liar. It was never about Haiti. It was
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Restless and again feeling the recurring itch of something
I’d not yet figured out how to scratch, Haiti unfolded herself one afternoon over a few beers at the East
Village Tavern, a local on the corner of 10<sup>th</sup> and C, Alphabet City,
Manhattan, NYC. Sitting at one of the outside tables enjoying the spring sun, I
was in discussion with Paddy, a close friend of mine who’d been in the
humanitarian and disaster game for a while, and had been on his way back to
England from Haiti until Iceland’s volcano decided to pick a fight with the
international airline industry and marooned him midway. He was crashing at mine
until flights resumed.<o:p></o:p></div>
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“Now’s your chance mate. You’ve been wanting to do this for
years.” He was right of course, and I knew it. Twenty eight years old, recently
single, uncommitted to a job or family, and able to cash in shares I earned as
an early web startup employee, I was in the perfect position to shift. Knowing
very little about Haiti outside of the fact that it was one of the poorest
countries in the world and had recently been flattened by an earthquake, she
fit the bill nicely for an aspiring would-be humanitarian / writer looking for
an appropriately “legit” place to cut his teeth. At Paddy’s advice I contacted
<a href="http://www.hands.org/" target="_blank">All Hands Volunteers</a> (then known as Hands On Disaster Response), a volunteer
organization doing work on the ground in Leogane, the city at the epicenter of
the quake, and committed to being with them until the end of their project
(then planned through 2010). Upon acceptance, and with Paddy back in the UK, I began
the process of wrapping up my life in New York, condensing it down to a few
boxes stashed in the attic of a family friend in New Jersey, and the two bags
I’d be hauling with me to JFK en route to Port-au-Prince. On July 1<sup>st</sup>,
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Prior to landing at Toussaint Louverture International
Airport, I had felt confident in my worldliness. Self-assured by equal parts
ego and personal history (born abroad, well-traveled) I knew Haiti would be
something different, but didn’t expect it to surprise me. I grossly
overestimated myself. Head against the window of the dilapidated Jeep that
slowly wove through the labyrinth that is Haiti’s capital, I was silent, camera
in hand but largely unused, watching a very different version of life unfold in
dusty, loud, morbidly fascinating real-time. Amputees hobbled on ill-fitted
crutches, knocking on car windows. Two feet away from the belches and growls of
the highway, a woman sat on the curb bathing a naked infant in a dented metal
washbin half-full of tepid water. Behind her, their small USAID-branded tarp
shelter, one of countless lined single file along the narrow divide between
opposing lanes, shimmered in the exhaust fumes. UN soldiers in light blue
helmets sat knee to knee in the back of white canvas-covered trucks, automatic
rifles on their laps. Everywhere countless flattened buildings and piles of
rubble and twisted rebar. I was captured, that drive from Port-au-Prince to
Leogane, and made clear of two things: this was unlike any place I’d ever
known, and, despite what I might have believed before, I was as susceptible as
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Leogane is a rural city, with a dense urban center and a sprawling periphery. It has a distinct smell to it - a heavy, nauseating, sweet
thickness that bubbles up from the viscous black run-off emptying out of
numerous kleren distilleries, where sugar cane is turned into Haiti’s
equivalent of moonshine, for which Leogane is famous. Goats and dogs with bad
legs scurry between street vendors who stack greasy piles of fried chicken,
pork and beef on metal trays covered with plastic sheets to keep the flies off,
but do little against the dust. A few gas stations with attached food marts
function as the city’s only real “supermarkets”, one of which, Chou Chou, is
popular with the international community given it has air conditioning.
Situated on the northern coast of Haiti’s southwest peninsula, roughly twenty
miles west of the capital, Leogane was closest to the center of the quake when
it struck in January 2010, leveling most of the city and killing tens of
thousands of people. A mass grave outside the cemetery is the final resting
place for many of them. At night, the city can be eerie - powerless and dark
except for the headbeams of cars and motorcycles, and the faint glow of
vendors’ oil lamps. After eleven, it’s virtually empty, the uneven streets laid
bare and reflecting the moon from large, seemingly permanent puddles. It is
rumored that vodou is particularly potent here, and the midnight hour is host to
those things best left alone – lugarou (werewolves), hougan (vodou priests) and
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The base I called home for a year and a half, Belval Plaza,
was an unfinished music venue - large, open, and one of the few buildings
relatively undamaged during the earthquake. That summer hundreds of
international volunteers passed through, mostly American but from many other
parts of the world as well. At the height of volunteer interest, 140 of us
shared Belval. I opted to live on the roof in a small yellow tent, as opposed
to setting up shop in one of the bunks underneath. Regardless, privacy wasn’t a
particularly viable option, and there was something compelling in that. This
was something entirely new – bucket showers and broken toilets and the constant
purr of a generator keeping everything lit until it went silent at 10PM. It
wouldn’t be an unfair statement to say it had as much in common with a Third
World summer camp as it did with an aid organization’s headquarters. Most
volunteers came for a month or so, with a core group of staff and volunteers in
it for the long haul. I fell into the second category, first as a volunteer,
and later, as staff. As might be expected from a place charged with young, unleashed
energy, it had a certain hedonism to it. There was a lot of drinking, dancing,
laughing. There was a lot of sex. It felt good. Central to the place were the
local volunteers - young, mostly male Haitians that came to the base every
morning, worked alongside us during the day, and partied with us in the
evening. Joe’s Bar, attached to Belval Plaza on one side, was a melting pot of
foreigners and locals, booze, and music pumped through semi-blown speakers.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The work we did was varied, but focused primarily on
unskilled, labor-intensive jobs that untrained volunteers, many with no
international aid background (myself included), could do. Clearing rubble from
plots so that families could begin to rebuild was a primary focus, as it fell
low on the agendas of the “real NGOs”, and we took pride in that, and earned
the respect of the community. The majority of volunteers spent their days
destroying and clearing collapsed homes by hand – sledgehammers, pickaxes,
shovels, wheelbarrows – as most of the heavy machinery brought into the country
was assigned to Port-au-Prince. We worked hard in Haiti, and Haiti worked us
hard in return. Many of us lost substantial weight, and earned new scars. The
local volunteers would laugh early and often as just-arrived foreigners wilted
after two swings of a sledgehammer in the summer heat. Some of us got laid out
with malaria, and dengue, and cholera. Much later, one of us would die.<o:p></o:p></div>
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My first months in Haiti were lived unquestioned. I made
friends, I explored the country, I fell in love and drank and danced and swam
the Caribbean and made a fool of myself in any interaction with the locals
because I could not speak Kreyol and had no background in French, the country’s
original colonial language upon which Kreyol is based. It was, in many
respects, the happiest period of my life. It was also the period during which,
in August 2010, I met James Fortil. A
young man near my age who had come to Leogane from Gonaives, James worked with
All Hands as a local volunteer in 2008 on another project in Haiti, and was
returning to do the same again. Possessing a basic knowledge of English but
stronger in Spanish (a language I also speak) given the few years he’d spent in
the neighboring Dominican Republic, James and I bridged the communication gap,
and he became my first true Haitian friend. In doing so, the process of a
deeper, more personal understanding into the nature of Haiti and her people
began, and so too the unraveling of my honeymoon with the country, with the
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The process was a slow one. It came gradually, in those rare
moments of silent contemplation, which given the nature of the base, and the
constant attention that came from the locals upon leaving it, was hard to find.
It came in drunken half-remembered conversations with James at the local
watering hole (dubbed Little Venice given it sat on a drainage ditch), in
which, tongue loosened by the alcohol, he would expose some of the fears and
doubts he had about his future. It came in starting to feel disconnected from
many of the newer volunteers, focusing most of my attentions on the
long-termers, or, occasionally, on a pretty short-termer that made tent time
more enjoyable. Mostly, it came from the gradual fading of the rush of being where
I was. When the sensational transitions into the normal, and the normal is
every day there, and you in it, you cannot help but begin to see things through
a different lens. The rose-tinted glasses begin to slip. This was not a process
unique to me. The discussions we had about Haiti were of two entirely different
qualities depending on who was having them: the newer internationals fresh with
excitement and seeing beauty in all things, and the long-termers engaging the
cynical side of their characters. In retrospect, it was so cliché as to be
embarrassing. In retrospect, many things.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I left Haiti in mid-January, after All Hands had decided to
extend the project into 2011, not expecting to return. A plane ticket purchased
for me from someone in London needed to be followed up on, and upon my arrival
back to New York from the UK, I hopped a plane to California and three months
in Los Angeles being with family and handling obligations. It was a raw period,
the post-Haiti whiplash melding with a sense of uncertainty of what was to come
and a general distaste for the culture around me. I spent it working at a cheap
Vietnamese restaurant as equal parts server, cashier, dishwasher, and social
media consultant, a throwback to my previous career in Silicon Valley. I wrote
letters, and enjoyed time with my brother and his dog, and my close friend
Mike. I had an entirely deplorable relationship with a taken woman, and I
didn’t care. I researched implementing a project similar to the one I helped
run in Haiti in Nicaragua, an unrealistic idea born of some last-minute bonding
between three friends in Leogane that fell apart as soon as we left Haiti. More
than anything, I struggled with the feeling that I had failed to accomplish
what I had set out to accomplish by going to Haiti to begin with. I wasn’t
entirely sure what that was, only that I’d left before it had the chance to
happen. So, when Paddy wrote me in May 2011 to let me know that All Hands had
asked him to come back to the project and reboot the program that I was
involved with before, and asked me to do it with him, I went.<o:p></o:p></div>
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My return trip to Haiti was of an entirely different nature
than the first. The drive through Port-au-Prince held no shock, and there was
evidence of progress being made. The highway divide shelters where I’d seen the
woman bathing the infant were gone, but many other thrown together tent cities
remained, now tattered and sagging under a year and a half of sun, wind and
rain. It had been a long time since the earthquake. Stepping back into the base
revealed a place with a different character, where more complicated programs
were being designed and implemented by an increasingly veteran and capable
team, of which I was a more integral part having moved from volunteer to staff.
My mandate – running the field operations of a program helping to provide clean
water to families at risk for cholera through the construction and distribution
of biosand water filters – was multi-faceted and nuanced, and far more
demanding. I worked more directly with local people, including a large local
staff hired and managed by Paddy and myself. Near every night found the two of
us on the roof outside his tent, smoking Comme Il Faut’s, Haiti’s local brand,
reviewing what we’d done, and what we had yet to do. In short, if my first
seven months in Haiti were an experiment in voluntourism, this was an
experiment in real aid work. It proved to be a double-edged sword.<o:p></o:p></div>
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“Fucking hell.” Paddy’s just come back from a walk to go get
some sodas. It’s a five minute endeavor, but now, thirteen months after we both
returned to Haiti to run our program, five minutes can feel much, much longer.
“I’m done. I’m fucking done.” He is too. We both are. The way we express it
varies from day to day as we go about trying to wrap up everything – the last
two international All Hands staff still in the country – but there is no
denying we have to go. Beyond the fatigue, which has become chronic, lies the
deeper problem: an ever-growing disillusion with the country, and with what we
set out here to do, and, on paper anyway, succeeded in doing. “Every god damn
time…” It’s another story of a very common experience for us now: an open
hostility toward us, from strangers, for the simple fact that we are blans
(Haiti’s term for foreigners). In this particular instance, a few guys demanded
that Paddy give them his sodas, and his money, because “that’s what you’re
supposed to do.” When he refused them, they took it personally, and vocally,
and in crowds there is always tension. We’ve been lucky insofar as we’ve never
been direct victims of physical aggression, but the undercurrent is always
there. Shouts from strangers - “Hey, fuck you!” - come often now. They didn’t
before, or maybe we just never noticed them. Becoming conversationally fluent
in Kreyol has been both a blessing and a curse. The children are excusable when
they shout at us, and tend to laugh and scatter should Paddy and I ever decide
to confront them to ask them where they’d learned such phrases, but the young
men are something else. There are moments where violence seems just there. For
the first time in my life there is a certain desire to be a part of it should
it come to the surface. Elements of my character have fundamentally changed.
The evidence sometimes surprises me. There is a self-destructiveness, a
recklessness, that wasn’t there before.<o:p></o:p></div>
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We’ve left Belval Plaza by now, having first moved to a
private home with a small core staff of internationals once the volunteer side
of the project ended in December 2011, and then moved again to another base run
by an organization All Hands has had a long history with and who agreed to
house the very few of us still in the country. By the end of April, only the staff
for our program remain – myself, Paddy, Billy, a young man from Oklahoma who
has been overseeing the production side of things for six months and proven to
be an invaluable part of the team, and a selected group of our local employees.
Before too long, Billy returns Stateside, and it’s the two of us. We’ve come a
long way in many respects, creating and implementing a program that has drawn
attention of larger NGOs and the UN, and resulted in partnerships with some of
them to extend our scope into other communities. We’ve found a local NGO to
hand over our program to once All Hands officially ends all activity in Haiti
on June 30<sup>th</sup>. We’ve far exceeded our original mandate, and been
praised as having done something very few higher ups within the organization
thought was within our capacity. Our
local team, with a few exceptions, have shown incredible talent and commitment
to the work, and have become far more than employees. Indeed, many of them I’ve
come to count as close friends. And yet, ours was not a feeling of success. <o:p></o:p></div>
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A few months earlier, in April, after a late night
conversation at the house with Paddy and Alejandro, our boss and one of us who
had been in Haiti the longest, I retired to my bedroom, swerving from the rum,
and <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/day-326-questions-no-answers.html" target="_blank">wrote an entry on my blog</a>. It was an entry I’d tried to write numerous
times before, and couldn’t, but in that moment the combination of the
conversation, the booze, and the determination to put into words whatever came,
damned if they be damning, resulted in a piece that resonated with aid workers
and was shared across the aid blogosphere. It was, in effect, my attempt at
trying to come clean with myself about what, in fact, this entire experience
had been. It was rambling, disjointed, and somewhat incoherent, putting forth
far more questions than answers, and, in that, a very authentic representation
of myself at the time. In it, I highlighted six things that Haiti had taught
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<li><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Good intentions aren’t enough.</span></li>
<li><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Rose-colored glasses are bullshit.</span></li>
<li><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">The white savior industrial complex is real,
demonstrated daily by feel good aid programs that probably don’t work, or feel
good causes like Kony 2012 that generate plenty of buzz but don’t add up to
much when people are actually supposed to do something.</span></li>
<li><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">You can’t help people who don’t want to help
themselves.</span></li>
<li><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">True altruism is an incredibly rare thing.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 7pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Little victories must be celebrated if you want to
protect yourself from the crippling effects of the larger failure.</span></li>
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And so it was for us. And, based on the feedback from
numerous aid workers who read the piece, so it was for countless others who’ve
dedicated time to the work. The story I’ve told thus far is unique only
insomuch as it is my own, but the results of my experiences are not unique. On
the contrary, they are shared by countless people from numerous varied
backgrounds who have all had the experience of trying to “help” in the form of
international humanitarianism, and realized how difficult that actually is to
do.<br />
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The truth is, my time in Haiti is less a story of events
than it is of an ever-changing process of feeling. From the initial shock and
fascination to a sense of euphoria and unquestioned purpose that began to give
way under questions based on deeper observation and ultimately led to a state
of confused, proud, exhausted uncertainty in most everything, Haiti broke me
down. It also humanized me, which is, by definition, painful, because it
requires you to bear witness to the suffering of others. In hindsight, it is
also what I realized I had set out to try and find to begin with. There is
something deeply humbling about coming face to face with your own powerlessness
in the presence of such overwhelming depravity, and that takes many forms. It
became routine in Haiti to watch friends and professional acquaintances change
because of Haiti’s influence: some had an emotional collapse, others a slow
burn-out, others a deep and cynical disconnect, and others still a seemingly
endless, almost unreasonable positivity. Most left the country in much the same
way I did: confused, raw, and utterly exhausted. <o:p></o:p></div>
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A natural human instinct when faced with something deemed to
be wrong or broken is to try and understand why so as to be able to make it
right or fix it. In the context of a place like Haiti, whose problems are so
deep-rooted and multi-faceted as to be almost incomprehensible, this drive toward
understanding is circuitous, contradictory, and ultimately, self-reflective,
and that’s where the crisis happens. To be an aid worker in Haiti for any
substantial length of time results in realizing the sad but unavoidable fact
that aid in Haiti is broken, and that, as an aid worker, you are both a cause
of the problem and a part of its would-be solution. The contradictions can be
torturous in that they become personal: a heartfelt thank you from a woman who
no longer fears cholera juxtaposed against the question of why she has to drink
from a river to begin with. Was it wrong to give her a filter? Is that just
playing into the dependency of the country, cutting people off at the knees
when they might otherwise find a way to stand? I found myself asking questions
like these often, the answers elusive and not entirely convincing.<br />
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This much I can say: I helped people in Haiti, in the
immediate sense of the word. If properly cared for, the filters we provided
rural families in areas that had little or no access to potable water will keep
them safe from cholera and other waterborne diseases for many years. The jobs
we created for our local staff kept them fed and housed, and for some of them,
kept their children in school. The slabs we cleared were often reclaimed, and
new homes built on them. But, in the long view, I have a hard time believing I
accomplished anything akin to real change, because I was part of a system
designed to combat the symptoms of Haiti’s illness, not the root causes. That
isn’t entirely the fault of aid. In many respects, I’ve come to believe that
aid can truly ever just be a band-aid for people in desperate and
optionless situations. Terms like “development” and “sustainability” and
“capacity building” are central to the aid lexicon, but for me come summer
2012, they rang hollow, because such terms imply an inherent independent
capability that is fundamentally contradictory to the notion that “we”, the
outsiders, can provide that. “We” cannot fix Haiti, and to think as much is a
nod to the Western ego. Only Haiti can fix Haiti. But to simply accept that as
an excuse to wipe our hands clean of the whole thing and bid Haiti best of luck
is wrong, because “we” are not blameless in Haiti’s miseries. Far from it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Teju Cole, a Nigerian-American writer, sparked interest in
March of this year when <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2012/03/the-white-savior-industrial-complex/254843/" target="_blank">he tweeted about the so-called “white savior industrial complex”</a>. He wrote, “The white savior supports brutal policies in the morning,
founds charities in the afternoon, and receives awards in the evening… The
White Savior Industrial Complex is not about justice. It is about having a big
emotional experience that validates privilege.” His statements resonated with
me, and helped me realize that I had played right into it. This was an experience
first and foremost about me: my desire to scratch an itch, my feeling of
exceptionalism for coming to do the work, my stories, my sense of purpose. And
yet, interestingly and perhaps in counter to Mr. Cole’s statements, I’ve come
to realize that that’s not a wrong thing. Indeed, self-realization, which is
what Haiti was my attempt at finding, is the gateway to happiness, and being
truly engaged in living. And for many aid workers, trying to help people is
their method of self-realization. That is a good thing. I’ll take an aid worker
over a politician ten times out of ten. It isn’t the aid workers supporting the
brutal policies Mr. Cole correctly brings to light.<o:p></o:p></div>
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That said, aid and aid workers could benefit from some
serious self-reflection. Too often in Haiti I saw badly designed and executed
projects that could do more harm than good. Abandoned, over-flowing latrines
exposed people living in camps to the threat of disease long after the NGO that
built them had left the country, never having a plan for what to do with the
waste. Leogane is susceptible to flooding, exacerbating the problem further. At
a meeting held at UN OCHA (United Nations Office for the Coordination of
Humanitarian Affairs), a woman representing a major NGO arrived late and with
only one purpose: to find out where she could distribute over a million
Aquatabs (water treatment tablets). When told that the World Health
Organization had recommended that distributions of Aquatabs be halted given
they could have negative health effects if used for too long, she defiantly
made it clear that, one way or another, she was distributing her supply, her
donors demanded it. Is it realistic to expect that a system dependent on and
answerable to donors to continue to exist can ever realistically put the needs
of those it is attempting to help above all else? It can work, but only if
donors let capable aid agencies do what they are designed to do, because many
donors don’t get their fingernails dirty, and do not understand the realities
on the ground. Indeed, many donors don’t seem to care about the intricacies at
all, acting much like the woman who came to our base representing a donor and
asked only to be taken to “where the poor kids are” so she could take photos
with them for a newsletter before driving back to Port-au-Prince and flying
home. NGOs and the many talented and specialized employees they employ should
not have to dance to the beat of the donor drum.<o:p></o:p></div>
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However, NGOs themselves should know their limitations, and
question their motives. Haiti has a nickname – The Republic of NGOs – and
spending any time in the country makes it painfully clear how appropriate that
nickname is. Everywhere are branded vehicles: UNICEF, Red Cross, Caritas, CARE,
UNDP, USAID, MSF. The list goes on (and on, and on, and on). And yet,
historically, more keep coming. Why? Is there really the need for yet another
organization working to give clean water, or provide medical care, or support
education? Probably not. Haiti is a small country. You’d be hard pressed to
find places NGOs aren’t. Is it not wiser to identify those NGOs already
engrained in the communities and proving to be effective and legitimate in the
eyes of the people they are aiming to help, and support them to expand their
scope rather then set up shop alongside them and potentially disrupt their
work? It’s a matter of priorities. Often times, it seems NGOs, like their
donors, put themselves before their purpose. It is a competition born of the
feeling of a “right” to be able to help.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Another result of so many players is that aid can often
overlap, with communities receiving different and often counterproductive
“solutions”. It was frustrating to return to areas we’d given filters to months
prior to find many not being used and being told that it was easier to just use
the Aquatabs that were now being distributed weekly by another NGO (our friend
from the UN meeting perhaps?) who hadn’t bothered to find out, or didn’t care,
that an existing solution was in place. To state that aid can be wasteful and
redundant is a gross understatement. Furthermore, many NGOs seem happy to
arrive in the country with outside, pre-determined solutions that may not be
culturally viable, or that are implemented incorrectly. Too few bother to
design solutions born of local knowledge. Building blocks made of compacted
plastic and Styrofoam waste (of which there is plenty in Haiti) sound like an
excellent idea, as long as people are willing to live in homes made from trash.
Many aren’t, and that has nothing to do with the technology, and everything to
do with culture.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Indeed, if I could go back and change my own program, I
would only have done it to begin with if given the go-ahead to set up a
satellite program in a very rural, inaccessible community with far greater
need. The simple truth is, most people in Leogane don’t need biosand filters.
For every community we found where people were drinking from rivers, we found
twenty more that had access to reliable, relatively safe hand-pumps. By the
time our program ended, some of those river communities had received new hand
pumps themselves. It isn’t to say that people didn’t benefit from our work, but
the impact could have been greater if focused where people had few if any safe
options. Aid for aid’s sake is tempting, because aid feels good, and is easy to
defend, but it defeats the purpose.<o:p></o:p></div>
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It doesn’t end with aid though. To suggest it alone is the
cause and continuation of Haiti’s problems is to make a blanket statement that
is, in no uncertain terms, wrong. To put it bluntly, Haiti and her people have
a large role to play in their own misery. This is a controversial suggestion
within the context of humanitarianism, which often paints people as victims and
powerless and therefore faultless (which is both untrue and deeply
disrespectful), but without people empowering themselves through recognition of
their own role to play in their lives, the flaunted ideals of development and
sustainability are entirely meaningless. What began to take shape for me as I
spent month after month in the field - in communities, in homes, in churches
and local committee meetings – is that many local people (but not all) had
seemingly little interest in actively working to improve their situations. This
isn’t a Haitian characteristic, it is a human characteristic, but in a place of
such exposed failings, it was hard to swallow. A deep and troubling societal
ill made itself known to me as my Kreyol improved and I could better understand
conversations between myself (and my team) and local people, and between local
people themselves. It revealed a mindset that began eroding my ability and
desire to want to continue to try and help, a mindset that asked, “Why help
myself when I know someone else will do it for me?” Aid has become so embedded
in Haitian society that it has created a monster: dependence expressed as
expectance. It is everywhere. It is the reason the men took offense when Paddy
refused to give them his sodas and his money. It is the reason kazaks (local
community leaders) would shortcut most every meeting with me and ask straight
out, “OK, but what are you going to give us?” or in their more shameless
moments, “OK, but what are you to give <b>me?</b>”
It became personal after I left Haiti the first time, with people I considered
friends making up stories about sick mothers or car accidents to try and get me
to send money. It was hard to find myself questioning someone professing to be
in true and dire need - it isn’t in my character - but it was something I did
more and more as time passed.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Is that dependence and expectance the result of decades of
poorly executed aid work? A strong case could be made that it is, but to me,
the cause is far less important than the effect, and pointing fingers is an
exercise in self-defensive futility. Ultimately, accountability for a life
comes from those doing the living, and until more local people take it upon
themselves to make the effort needed to truly begin to grow and expand their
own capacities, to shed the label of “beneficiary” and reclaim the rightful
title of “human being”, imperfect and troublesome as that title is, then Haiti
will never rise, and many international actors will never treat Haiti as
anything more than broken. Haitians know this, with some often expressing more
frustration with their own people than with aid workers or the aid system.
<a href="http://www.npr.org/2012/05/10/152426653/aid-worker-leaves-haiti-with-a-sour-taste" target="_blank">During an interview I did</a> for NPR’s “Talk of the Nation” about the experience
of being an aid worker in Haiti, Jean Claude, a Haitian psychotherapist living
in the States who frequently returned to Haiti, expressed this frustration
pretty clearly: “I find it to be consistent all across the country, that a lot
of my fellow Haitians are more interested in asking for a dollar instead of
working for that dollar." To suggest such a thing as a non-Haitian, however,
is prickly. Many of the most hostile comments I got in response to the blog
entry where I first placed some accountability on Haitians themselves were from
Haitians, some of them from Leogane and professing to know me, and who called
me a spoiled white idiot, a faggot, and a racist. Is it possible that I’m being
insensitive and grossly oversimplifying a problem I may not truly understand
given I am neither Haitian nor a veteran aid worker? Most certainly. Is
resorting to calling me a racist or faggot an act of deflection aimed at
avoiding deeper, uncomfortable self-reflection? Probably.</div>
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It wasn’t uncommon in conversations had amongst aid workers
in Haiti that the best thing to do would be to just leave the country all
together. All of us. The entire system. No more aid. No more programs, no more
financial support, no more imports. Just let Haiti figure itself out. It is
hard to deny the attractiveness of the proposal given its simplicity, and its
allowing all of us to just wash our hands of the place with a resigned (or is
that relieved?) sigh of, “Well, we tried.” It’s also a completely terrible
idea. If all aid were to leave Haiti, many countless people would die. The
country simply cannot support itself in its present state. Haiti’s government
is ineffectual at best, and predatory at worst. Haiti’s security infrastructure
is ill-equipped to handle violence without the support of MINUSTAH, the UN’s
peacekeeping mission in the country. Haiti’s natural environment is severely
compromised, with deforestation and top-soil run-off making bountiful,
productive farming that can support Haiti’s booming population an
impossibility. And yet, I’ve been guilty of throwing out the “Fuck it.”
solution myself, the result of frustration trumping compassion.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The other reason it would be wrong to pull all aid from
Haiti is because Haiti isn’t and has never been a country free to try and
advance itself without the tampering of outside players. Us. Since overthrowing
French colonial rule, resulting in the first black-led republic in the world
born of the first truly successful slave rebellion, Haitians have been
continuously undermined and kept down by the West – the United States and
France in particular. Saddled with a crushing debt by the French in the early
1800s, imposed to remedy the loss of France’s men and colony, it was a sum
Haiti could never hope to pay if it also hoped to care for its own people and
strengthen its state capacity. It is also absurd to demand a people that had
enriched France beyond measure (Haiti was their most profitable colony, and
their most brutal) should have to pay for the privilege of ending their own
subjugation. However, that wasn’t the dominant view at the time, and the debt
imposed by France laid the foundation for the gross underdevelopment in the
country today. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The United States occupied Haiti from 1915 to 1934, under
the banner of restoring peace after a series of violent coups, but actually
working to maintain US economic domination over the country as well as replace
its existing Constitution, which forbid foreign ownership of Haitian land.
Haiti’s two most famous and destructive dictators – Francois Duvalier and his
son Jean-Claude – were grudgingly propped up by the US as a political counter
to Cuba’s Castro and the feared spread of communism. In 1990, Jean-Bertrand
Artistide, a Haitian priest raised in poverty, became the first democratically
elected president in Haiti’s history, winning by a large majority. In 1991 he
was forced into exile as a result of a military coup with ties to the Bush
presidency, who feared the ramifications of a populist president working in
opposition to the traditional elites that had ruled Haiti. Again in 2000,
Aristide was reelected, and again, in 2004, overthrown in a coup with ties to
the then second Bush presidency.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The history is long, and this is not the place (nor am I the
person) to attempt to make sense of it all, other than to say something I
believe is of critical importance: Haiti is a mess largely because powerful
players have a vested interest in keeping it a mess. The brutal policies Teju
Cole highlighted in his series of tweets are real, imposed both within the
country by predatory elites, and from outside the country by those with
something to gain. Given this, is it not entirely wrong to suggest Haiti just
needs to “figure it out”, as if the abandonment of aid in the country would
also free it from other, more malevolent outside influences? For me, it became
a dilemma, one in which I often asked myself if it wouldn’t be better to focus
my attentions not on Haiti, but on the US - my own country - and work to combat
the policies and actions created within it that have terrible implications for
people in other parts of the world. If aid truly is just a band-aid, and root
causes cannot be addressed through aid, isn’t continuing to focus on it rather
than on the source tantamount to acknowledging the ultimate futility of the
whole process? Is being an awakened aid worker who stays in aid anyway a
betrayal of the morals and ideologies that we profess to be central to who we
are and why we do what we do? Again, many questions, few answers.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Paddy left Haiti July 1<sup>st</sup>, 2012. What I imagined
to be a powerful closing moment at the airport between two close friends who
had together gone through one of the most defining experiences in our lives was
anything but. A quick nod, a heft of his bag, and he was gone. In some ways, it
was perfect. No words necessary. Three weeks later, after a short consulting
gig with a larger NGO, I followed him – the final one of us to go. It was a
rushed exit, the result of a last minute itinerary change so that I could get
to New York and sort out visa issues in preparation for the coming academic
year in London. There were many people I did not get to say goodbye to. There
were many last minute phone calls. Standing outside the office in
Port-au-Prince during my final hours in the country, talking on the phone to my
now ex-employees, and my local friends, was both painful and deeply rewarding.
I placed faith in what they told me – that they respected me, and were grateful
for the chance to create what we created together. That they were proud of the
work they accomplished. That they were going to miss me, and demanded I return
to visit, that I’d have a place to stay. There was as much laughter as there
was sadness. It meant something. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The most difficult call to make was entirely one-sided - me
talking to a voice mail service, saying my goodbyes to Wadson, a young man from
a very poor background, a father and a husband, who had volunteered to help us
when we brought filters to his community, and proved to be incredibly dedicated
and capable. It was with deep disappointment that, months later, I had to fire
him from the part-time position created specifically for him because I
discovered he was lying about having done the work we expected him to do. He
left the base in tears, and I hadn’t spoken to him in since. But, in those
closing moments of Haiti, I realized Wadson was, in many respects, a perfect
representation of the greater Haiti experience – promising, capable, and
flawed. In saying my goodbye to him, I was saying my goodbye to all of it: the
beauty turned ugly, the euphoria turned disillusion, the certainty turned
doubt. In telling Wadson that, regardless of his mistake, I valued him and what
he did to help our team, and that he should be proud of that, and remember it,
I was as much talking to myself as I was to him. He remained in my thoughts as
I stepped into the plane and, head once again against a window, watched
Port-au-Prince as it shrank away.<o:p></o:p></div>
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It has been almost four months since I left Haiti. In that
time I’ve bounced from the Americas to Europe to Asia and finally settled in
London, where I’m now pursuing a Master’s degree. To say it has been one of the
most challenging periods in my life would not be an overstatement. Haiti
succeeded in doing what I hoped it might do: break me down, leaving me unsure
of many things I took as certain before I went. It humanized me, and set in
motion my push toward self-realization. It isn’t a process I’ve yet completed.
Pieces of myself are exposed that were not before, but remain silent on how
they want to be put back together.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Since arriving in London in mid-September, I’ve spent most
of my time alone. It isn’t that I don’t want to be with people, it’s that I
don’t really remember how to be with people. Conversations can feel awkward,
and are largely avoided. A close friend of mine who spent a year in Haiti and
left shortly after I did to return home to Portland wrote me recently sharing
that she feels as if she’s forgotten how to make friends. She talked about the
combination of ADD, anxiety and reality distortion that overwhelmed her when
she first went post-Haiti clothes shopping at a Nordstrom. She had to leave the
store. This is an experience we share – my first visit to a Primark to buy a
few cold weather items resulted in my walking out empty-handed within minutes to
simply escape the place. A Friday night out to Shoreditch, one of London’s
trendier neighborhoods, found me standing in total discomfort in the middle of
a packed bar as people whirled around me, drinking and laughing and loud. “You
OK hun?” the friend I was with asked. I didn’t have to explain. I met her in
Haiti in 2010, and she’d done work in Ghana before that. We ended up in a quiet
place, at a table for two.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The result of so much time alone is obvious: an internal
dialogue unlike any I’ve had before. Every day I spend hours in silent conversation
with myself. Unlike the first month after I left Haiti, where I thought very
little of the country, I now reflect on it constantly. On the contradictions,
on the work, on the people I know there and care about, of their present and
their future. Some days I get out of my head and call Jenny, a whipsmart
eighteen year old who’s family I was very close to, and smile when she tells me
that she’s first in her class and recently been elected class president. When I
first met her she was sixteen and working outside Belval Plaza trying to sell
cheap tourist trinkets to the volunteers. She wasn’t in school. She tells me
Hurricane Sandy hit Leogane pretty badly, but that she and Ornela and Madam
Michelle, her little sister and her mom, are fine. She tells me she misses me,
and to come and visit her. I know I will, but don’t know when. I talk to James
on Facebook, now back in Gonaives. He tells me it’s tough. He’s out of work.
He’s thinking about going to the Dominican Republic again, or maybe Guadalupe.
He doesn’t feel he has many options in Haiti. I talk to Fatal, one of our best
employees, a family man in his thirties with two newborns (one biological, the
other adopted after being abandoned) who recently faced eviction because he
can’t find work. Many disaster response programs in Haiti are finishing, the
jobs going with them. The earthquake was a long time ago. I feel obligated to
help, but know it amounts to very little. Band aids, still.<o:p></o:p></div>
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And yet, band aids or not, something interesting is at play
now: my conviction for the work is growing, not diminishing. My dedication to
humanitarianism is strengthening, not weakening. My degree program, focused on
conflict and development, is, like Haiti, creating more questions than answers
in me, and yet inspires me for the fact that the answers are there to be found.
Despite the whiplash, and the discomfort it has brought, I have a growing trust
in the fact that I’ve aligned myself with something that is important,
imperfect, and needs to be done. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In those rare moments where I do talk to people about Haiti,
and the contradictions and frustrations and confusion that came of my time
there, a question I often get in response is why? Why do it at all, if it is so
broken? It’s the wrong question entirely.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-138-how-to-build-coffin.html" target="_blank">The most powerful experience I had in Haiti</a> happened in
October 2011, when a baby girl, orphaned, severely malnourished, and HIV
positive, was dropped off at an organization a friend of mine was working for.
Deemed too far gone by doctors and hospitals, the orphanage that had been
housing her had given up too, and didn’t want to waste their very limited
resources on her. Over the course of a few days, Miguerline, over a year old
but the size of an infant, was cared for by my friend with a dedication and
sweetness that was beautiful to watch. The little girl rallied at first, even
began eating semi-solid foods and managing a few giggles where before there
were moans, but it was not to last. On October 16<sup>th</sup>, in the late
hours of the evening, she died. It was a horrible death to bear witness to:
vomit and feces and rubber gloves to protect from the virus, needles and
backslapping, and the rhythmic moaning returned, and growing ever fainter. By
the time her jaw gave three short jerks before the final exhale, I was numb,
and set about trying to build a coffin from semi-rotting plywood so she would
not have to be returned to the orphanage in a suitcase, like the child before
her had been. We left her outside on the porch, the staff so accustomed to this
as to be almost indifferent. Miguerline was one more dead child in a country of
countless dead children.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The question isn’t why. The question is how. How can this be
allowed to happen? How can a little girl in a country but a stone’s throw away
from the world’s richest and most powerful nation be allowed to die like
that? That is wrong, and rationalizing
it doesn’t change that. Miguerline’s life was challenging, but her death could
have been avoided with basic nutrition and HIV medication. If Miguerline had
been American, she probably would have lived. Miguerline wasn’t a priority.
Somewhere else a judgment call was made about her life, by people who never
knew her, and she came up short.<o:p></o:p></div>
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And therein lies my reason for remaining committed. What
happened to Miguerline should not have happened. It happens all the time. The
world’s bottom billion suffer immeasurably so that the world’s top billion can
enjoy themselves. The system, as it stands now, is stacked so unforgivingly
against so many that to allow it to remain is to reject those qualities that
make us human beings. Do we really want to engage our small, crowded and ever
more connected world with the basest aspects of ourselves? Is that what we
aspire to? Do we accept the suffering of others? Do we accept the suffering of
others if it is within our power to try and end it? That’s it really. That’s all of it.
If your answer is no, than you’re no different than me, and I’m no different
than most, because I know that if asked that question, the vast majority of us
would respond with a collective and decisive no. It’s a no worth honoring. It’s
a no worth honoring despite the endless yeses that can be used to counter it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Is aid largely broken? Yes. Is it designed to address
symptoms, not causes? Yes. Can it hurt and disempower the people it is trying
to help? Yes. Is it possible it needs to be redesigned from the ground up? Yes.
Is it tempting to write it off given the complexity of doing that? Yes. Should
we? No. No, we should not. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Paul Collier, a respected British economist, gave a talk in February
2008 in which he championed working to address the plight of the bottom
billion, with aid playing a key role. He closed it with self-deprecating humor,
highlighting a comment made about him that said he was not a charismatic man,
but his message was compelling. I couldn’t help but laugh, the meaning of his
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Aid is not charismatic. It can be to untrained eyes, but
under the feel-good exterior lies a much uglier core that, once revealed, makes
itself very hard to like, but even harder to walk away from. No, aid is not
charismatic, but it is compelling, because it represents a desire to manifest
the best of ourselves: a powerful, affirming, awakened engagement with one
another that comes from the marriage of human ingenuity to human compassion. In
a sea of questions, that is the anchor that might just lead to an answer.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-29184322336570594292013-04-01T15:03:00.005-07:002013-04-01T15:04:55.505-07:00This is beautiful.Personal windows like this humble me. Incredibly beautiful, and brave.<br />
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<a href="http://mywifesfightwithbreastcancer.com/" target="_blank"><b>The Battle We Didn't Choose</b></a><br />
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I leave London on Wednesday to return to California for a month. It's needed. It has been almost two years since I've seen my family. These last two years have been big ones. I want to share them.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-46461341009179087442013-01-13T08:32:00.002-08:002013-01-13T08:34:57.857-08:00Belval Plaza's final days.I was clicking through some Facebook photos friends had posted from the Haiti days and found this one, which was particularly poignant for some reason. It's the roof of Belval Plaza, my home for a year and a half, in mid-to-late December 2011. All of us had broken down our tents and most had already gone, returning to wherever we came from, and leaving behind the pallets, cinderblocks, and hacked-together furniture that we used to keep ourselves dry and as comfortable as possible.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-25257794060484461912013-01-09T03:54:00.001-08:002013-01-09T03:56:46.509-08:00Interviews, writings, and updates.I don't think I ever actually posted the NPR interview I was asked to give in response to my <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/day-326-questions-no-answers.html" target="_blank">blog post back in April of last year</a>, but they asked me at the start of this year to do a quick follow-up. Thanks to Tinbete, Neal and the rest of the "Talk of the Nation" team for giving me the chance to share some thoughts. Links:<br />
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<a href="http://www.npr.org/2013/01/02/168473067/closing-the-circle-memorable-stories-of-2012" target="_blank">NPR's Talk of the Nation - Closing The Circle: Memorable Stories of 2012 (Jan. 2nd, 2013)</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.npr.org/2012/05/10/152426653/aid-worker-leaves-haiti-with-a-sour-taste" target="_blank">NPR's Talk of the Nation - Aid Worker Leaves Haiti With A Sour Taste (May 10th, 2012)</a><br />
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Not many updates recently, but life is good. <a href="http://www.kcl.ac.uk/sspp/departments/warstudies/index.aspx" target="_blank">School</a> is inspiring and keeps me busy, and while landing in London was a rough transition, I'm feeling more and more at home in this city, and more appreciative of it. I could see myself potentially staying put for a bit if I can find a job here post-graduation that can make good use of my talents, and inspires and challenges me. As much as I love academia, it is something of a solo process, and I love team dynamic and working toward a common goal. In that, a future career excites me. We shall see.<br />
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I have managed to write the "follow-up" piece to the April 2012 blog post that some people have asked me to write, but as it was requested by a magazine, it is still being edited. Once that's finished up and finalized, I'll post it. It by no means attempts to capture all of what the Haiti experience was for me, but it does probe deeper than anything I've written to date.<br />
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2013 then. Hello there.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-35685331161917067942012-11-27T05:14:00.001-08:002012-11-27T05:14:47.367-08:00In the debate on the ills and goods of aid......let us not forget something important:<br />
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“The international aid community has a tendency to colonize, and this tendency is no less apparent in its moral debates where all too often it has shown signs of making all the moral problems of the world its own. In debates about humanitarian ethics, this has sometimes meant that relief agencies and their critics have tended to overstate the moral burden on humanitarianism – perhaps because it is easier to accuse a relief agency than a warlord these days. But it should never be forgotten that relief agencies are always responding to the violence of others. The difficult moral choices faced by relief agencies usually come about as a result of the immoral choices already made by political leaders and other individuals and groups. In most situations, relief agencies inherit an already uneven moral playing-field. It would therefore be morally negligent if excessive agonizing by or about relief agencies (the groaning of the white man and his burden) shouted out the accusations of blame which should be put squarely where they are most obviously due: with the killers, the rapists, the dispossessors and their political leaders who initiate and sustain the policies of excessive and unjust violence in today’s wars and genocides.”<br />
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<i>Hugo Slim - Doing The Right Thing: Relief Agencies, Moral Dilemmas and Moral Responsibility in Political Emergencies and War (1997)</i><br />
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Damn good point. Spend days on end reading about the ills of irresponsible aid can get a fella aspiring to work in the field (or one related to it) somewhat down, but every now and again you read something that highlights the other, equally important side of things.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-28971609742086428812012-10-17T18:03:00.001-07:002012-10-18T02:38:48.073-07:00The WhiplashPeople who've been at this longer than I have told me it'd come. They told me to be patient with myself, to recognize the effects, to understand the process, to keep perspective and push on, even if it meant faking it for a while. I trusted what they told me but I didn't really ever quite believe it. The whiplash, perhaps one of the most highlighted aspects of the international humanitarian experience, is well documented, but I can be stubborn in my moments, allowing myself the think that maybe I'm different. I'm not.<br />
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It's the unseen approach that's the trickiest bit. There's really no way to know. Like that unexpected burst of manic, overwhelming energy that flattened the city I called home for two years, the whiplash just hits. I've gotten in the habit of trying to avoid it through movement. A body in motion seems harder to knock down. Maybe that's completely wrong.<br />
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I'm walking down the street, fast, boots echoing off the pavement. I've been doing a lot of this recently. Blisters on my feet. Bandaids on my pinky toes. It's dark and crisp, and I can see my breath when I exhale. I'm wearing a lot of clothing, but the cooling sweat under it makes it cold. My iPod is in, set to repeat my "Rollin' in the Deep" playlist. There are no Adele songs on it. I'm thinking I'd like to be drinking right now. Bottle of red or a few cans of beer? Red would keep me warmer, but the beer's cheaper. I go for the beer. They tell me you can drink on the streets of London. No problems yet, so I suppose I believe them.<br />
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I walk in a direction with no destination but proximity. I know there's no point to it, but I do it anyway. I walk along the south bank of the Thames, past the London Eye and the OXO Tower and the Tate Modern. I like the look of the Millennium Bridge and tell myself I need to walk that too. I do, a few days later. I continue down into the darkened shadows of Southwark Cathedral and Borough Market, one my favorite places in the city, and linger there, indulging a few memories. I finish the beer, find a trash can, and keep moving. I'm headed south, closer now, and cross the street.<br />
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The pub has a little window at the top, connected to what I imagine might be a little room. The window was open a few days ago, but it's closed now. Through the larger streetside windows I can see there are a handful of people left inside, but they're just lingering, easing down the final sips. I'm tempted to stop and study them, but I don't. It is cold. I don't stop walking. It's something akin to morbid curiosity that brought me here, or maybe just a deep loneliness, and now it's time to go.<br />
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I'm down a side street, doubling back in the direction I came, headed back to the river, moving west this time. It's all in reverse: Borough Market, Southwark Cathedral, The Tate Modern and the Millennium Bridge, the OXO Tower. I almost make it to Waterloo Bridge before what I've been trying to stay ahead of catches up. I sit on a bench under a tree, feel the wet through my jeans because it's raining now, and it comes. I'm quiet about it, not that anyone's around to hear. I can't even hear myself for the headphones. It doesn't last long, a few minutes, and then I'm still. The moisture is collecting on the edge of my beanie, which I keep pulling as low as I can. My nose is running, and I taste salt. I'm cold, but the release leaves me feeling peaceful. I'm OK with just sitting here for a while.<br />
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Big Ben looks pretty big. I walk under it a few nights later. It is big. Not New York City big, but this is London. It doesn't need to be that big. I think that this city is beautiful at night. I feel like I could love it, and at the same time want to fast forward through it all. I ask myself questions that are impossible for me to answer, and feel OK in my unknowing. I'm off balance, but collected, and it's time to move again.<br />
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It's slow now, the boots don't make much noise, a light scuffing along the ground. I keep the playlist going. I'm on Waterloo Bridge, looking at Somerset House, and next to it my university. I feel incredibly lucky to be there. I take my time in the middle of the span, looking down at the water. It moves faster than I would have thought.<br />
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Underneath the city it's warmer, and I've caught one of the final trains headed north to Manor House. Coming up again I can see it's rained here too. Harder, by the looks of it. My boots splash along the sidewalk. I hope the off license is open. I want a few more cans, and I like the German Shepherd puppy that lives behind the counter. It's not. I consider getting a kebab, mostly because I know I should probably eat something, but I'm not hungry, and I don't.<br />
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The temporary roommates have given me a key so I don't have to wake them. I let myself in. A few blinking lights illuminate the place, but it's silent. Opening the fridge I see an open bottle of white. I know I shouldn't but I pour half of it into a glass, and head up the stairs to the room I sleep in. I try and be quiet when I put the mattress on the ground. There's a little sleeping bag too, but I'm too big for it. I fold the pillow over itself in the silence and tuck my arm under it, the ringing in my ears amplifying and the wet of my beanie on my face as I put my head down. In the morning I can see my boots are water stained and have dirtied the sheet, but they've kept my feet warm through the night. I take a shower. It's really hot, and I like that. I use someone's shampoo. Some bandaids fall off. I flush them down the toilet, and put on new ones.<br />
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I'm outside and headed south again, back to the city. It's sunny. It feels like it could be a good day. People ride bikes past me, and I'm moving fast, my boots hammering the sidewalk, one hand rolling through the playlists, the other jammed into the pocket with my phone in it, hoping it will vibrate.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-30358831982515890892012-09-16T06:07:00.000-07:002012-09-16T06:17:47.770-07:00Day XX - Restart: LondonLondon. I’m here. Two years ago nearly to the day I had a
feeling I would find my way to this city eventually, and it’s happened. I’m
sitting in my friend Briony’s room in her flat north of city center, listening
to Dug G, a Haitian rapper, and waiting. Waiting for a phone call from a
friend, yes, but also waiting to see what’s going to come. This is the first
time since leaving New York for Haiti on July 1<sup>st</sup>, 2010 that I know
I won’t be needing to pack up again and shove off once more. London is home, at
least for the next year, but perhaps longer. This year is only transitional if
I choose it to be. My roots could eventually be English. Knowing that, knowing
that this is where I stabilize, leaves me waiting for the post-Haiti fallout
that hasn’t happened yet. Yes, I left Haiti at the end of July, nearly two
months ago now, but in that time I’ve bounced from New York to Madrid to SE
Asia and back to Madrid before landing at Gatwick last Tuesday, which is simply
to say I’ve had no real chance to just be still and see what happens.<br />
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Not that I’m all that still here. I’ve got a lot of things
to do before my course at King’s kicks off on the 24<sup>th</sup>, my 31<sup>st</sup>
birthday as it happens. If it plays out as I hope, I’ll be getting a flat with
two friends from Haiti, one of whom was there for just about as long as I was.
That will be great. We’re pretty tight, and she’ll be someone I know will
understand when the conversations inevitably drift back to the Caribbean, and
the last two years. We’re very different in many ways – she inspires me and
makes me realize that I’ve a long way yet to go – but we have Haiti in common,
and have a tendency toward making one another crack up. It’ll be good.<o:p></o:p></div>
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People have been asking me to write something akin to a
follow-up to <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/day-326-questions-no-answers.html" target="_blank">the unexpectedly popular entry that I posted back in April of this year.</a> I’ve thought about how I’d like to do that, and the simple truth is I
haven’t followed that entry up because I don’t know quite what else to say.
This isn’t that follow-up entry. What resonated
with people about the original entry isn’t my highlighting of Haiti’s problems,
or my description of my work there, but rather my coming clean about my
experience. I’m no expert on Haiti, and while I know quite a bit about a very
specific technology that I worked with there (biosand filters), and about a
community (Leogane), and I can speak to what it is like to live there, I’m not
an aid expert by any means. Haiti was my jumping into the deep end – my attempt
at challenging myself to see if the humanitarian world is something I can both
do and been fulfilled by in doing. It was my Step 1. I’m just getting started.
I’ve made the decision to remain committed to the field, hence my pursuing a
degree in conflict, security & development for the next year, but I’d be
very hesitant to ever try and write as if I know something fundamentally true
or real about Haiti that many others before me know better and can probably
explain in much better detail. I don’t want to provide a weak second voice if
there are so many powerful primary voices already in the discussion. Two years,
even though it is longer than most internationals spend in the country, is still
just scratching the surface when compared to truly committed humanitarians that
have decided to make Haiti part of, or the entirety of, their life’s work. Their
answers are the ones that should be listened to.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So no, don’t ask me to give answers. I don’t have that many,
and the ones I do have will just be simplified versions of what much more
capable people have already said. I won’t give you answers. But I will try and give
you a continued glimpse into what my experiences in Haiti have done in me: how
they’ve changed me, how they linger in me now that I’m not in Haiti any longer,
and how they might manifest themselves in my life going forward. I’ve no doubt
that the academic challenge coming my way in just over a week, in which I’ll be
taking a much more rigorous intellectual look at elements of development, and
at conflict, an area I’m particularly interested in (even though it was not
work I was involved with in Haiti), will bring out questions. I’ve also people
here in London that I shared the Haiti experience with. And, my ties to Haiti
are not severed completely. I am still working to make sure Jenny gets through
high school, and I do stay in touch with my friends there. Which is simply to
say there are things in my life that will keep me connected.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I can feel it right now, as I sit in this chair staring at
my laptop - that unknown something, the cumulative effect of that beautiful, devastating,
and even absurd experience. It is so big. The energy in me is palpable. And
yet, the result, at least for now, is silence. It’s thinking. It’s stillness. It’s
sleeping. A lot of sleeping. It’s internal conversations that go in circles and
don’t quite come away with anything. Not yet. It’s big, and it’s led to my
choice to commit myself in ways I’ve not done ever in my life prior. And yet,
it’s just beginning. It’s over, but it’s just started. That’s what I have to offer
right now. It’s not much, yet, but it’s growing.<o:p></o:p></div>
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London. You’ve been a long time coming.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-31584480260977590232012-08-02T10:25:00.001-07:002012-08-02T11:43:22.491-07:00Day 0: Ovwa Ayiti (Anko)Monday, July 23rd I left Haiti and landed in NYC, where I've been since. I have things I still want to write, but there's no time for that yet. Just walking around this vast, familiar yet somewhat alien city that I used to call my home has made it clear to me I've much more to process before I'll have the slightest inkling of what the experience in Haiti has been for me.<br />
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I left Haiti on Day 417 of my return trip. Combined with the <a href="http://thesenewboots.blogspot.com/2011/01/day-201-orevwa-ayiti.html" target="_blank">201 days of my first trip</a>, I spent 21 months in the country. Along with the process of being with my mother as she slowly lost her life to cancer, they were unquestionably the most defining, challenging, and beautiful months of my life.<br />
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More to come, of that I'm sure.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-55203921436560763942012-04-22T20:52:00.000-07:002012-04-26T05:52:55.114-07:00Day 326: Questions & (No) Answers (The Aid Bitchslap)"It's going to take a while before I can even make sense of all of this." I'm talking to Paddy as we make our way down a dark street in Leogane, dodging motos and trying to avoid the mud. "It won't happen here. It won't happen until I've left." He nods. He feels the same. Our time in Haiti isn't over yet, we've both got a few months left, but we're feeling the end now, and we're feeling what it took to get here. We're tired, and confused, and frustrated. We're excited. We're proud. We're trying not to pass quick judgements, and we realize how hard that is to do.<br />
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Project Leogane is nearly over. Tomorrow marks the final week. April 27th work ends. April 28th we have the farewell party. April 30th the lease on our house is up, and people make their way to whatever is next. In my case, making my way isn't too tricky, as I'll be moving in to the base of my friend Jason, along with Paddy and Billy, where we'll work for the next two months finishing up our obligations to GOAL and the partnership we have with them. We'll also be mentoring our handover partner, the Haitian-American organization FHED (Foundation for Humanitarian Education & Development), who will be continuing our biosand filter program once we leave. Billy stays until the end of May. Paddy leaves the end of June. Alejandro and Diana will stay until May 15th to support our transition. I will stay until the end of July. I wasn't the first to arrive here with All Hands, but I'll be the last to go.</div>
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I know Haiti isn't yet done for me, but the nature of how I've lived and worked here since July 2010 has changed many times, and this perhaps marks the most distinct change. Project Leogane, and All Hands Volunteers, my organization and identity in Haiti, is nearly over. The skeleton crew staying is very much that. We'll no longer be part of the group. We'll be the entirety of it. I've no problems with that. If I'm honest, I'm excited to see how it will play out, but it does get me thinking. Of what, I'm not so sure, or more accurately, I'm not so sure I can yet explain it in any coherent way. Too many things. So many things. Only through a total disconnect will I have the distance and time needed to sift through all of this, and I'll have that before too long, but I still feel the urge to try and write about it, to mark it down in some way, although all recent attempts at doing so result in deleted entries, rambling and uncertain sentences that frustrated me but accurately reflect where my head is at these days. I honestly don't know what to make of this place and this experience.</div>
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I do know this. I'm ready to go. Haiti, while still powerful in her effect on me, is beginning to leave a sour taste in my mouth. Going out into the monotonous, seemingly unchanging landscape of Leogane, which some of us have now taken to jokingly referring to as "post-apocalyptic", is something I try and avoid unless in a state of mind sufficient enough to match whatever absurdity is going to come at me. My patience is near gone. I still feel for people. The empathy is there, but it's become something different than it was before.<br />
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"Fuck you!" The shouts come pretty regularly these days, sometimes from kids, sometimes from adults, always directed at us for no other reason than the fact we are foreigners, that we are blans. I don't know the people shouting. Sometimes we shout back, other times we shake our heads at the stupidity, sometimes we laugh, other times we stop the car, get out, and watch the guilty children run away, or the guilty adults eye us up. A few days ago it's a group of guys playing football in the middle of the street. "Fuck you!" We pull over, not because of the comment, but because we're at the chicken stand we were headed toward to buy some food. My patience is worn thin. We get out of the car a few paces from where the guys are. "Masisi! Masisi!" They're calling us faggots. Really? <i>Really?</i> <i><b>I don't even know you. </b></i>Fuck this. I hammer back at them. "You think we're faggots? Is that what you think? I think you're a bunch of uneducated, ignorant idiots. Instead of playing football in the street and telling blans you don't know to go fuck themselves, why don't you go to school? You're young men. You're not kids. Do something with your lives." I want to keep going. I want to tell them they are pathetic. I want to tell them that you shouldn't tell someone to go fuck themselves one day then come groveling to them the next asking for a job or money or food or a house. I want to tell them they are the problem with this fucked up country. I want to, but I don't, because I know, despite the anger, that while they are ignorant, and they do deserve to get called on their shit, they don't deserve to be shamed for their condition. Most people just play the hand they're dealt. Few opt to really try and change their hand, let alone the deck. That's not Haitian. That's human. Haiti just happens to deal a pretty shit hand to most. I'd be a fool to place the entirety of the blame on them. They're not the cause. They're part of the effect.</div>
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We get the chicken and drive away. One of the guys mimics punching us. I enjoy the five second fantasy of laying them all out in the street, although I know that will never come to pass. I'm not a fighter. We laugh it off, but not really. "This fucking place..." Every day. We allow ourselves some ignorance of our own, mocking the wannabe gangster culture the men in the street all had on display. "Oh you're a gangster are you? You're hardcore? <b>You can't even get food.</b> So hardcore. So gangster." We laugh, hard. I know the comment is off-color, but I also know I'm doing it to release. I'm aware when I'm allowing myself to mock a situation that shouldn't be mocked, when I'm engaging something I'm actually against. I'm aware that I'm doing it more and more these days. I'm aware that, at the end of the day, I do it because it helps mask the underlying frustration and sense of overwhelm and guilt that comes with being a foreigner in Haiti.</div>
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We come home, tell some housemates about it. They tell us how people started throwing rocks at one of our roommates as he was getting a dance lesson on the roof from a local Haitian girl. They had to come inside and continue the lesson out of reach of the rocks. I get a phone call. My friend Jenny, a Haitian girl I'm close to and care for a lot, tells me her grandmother has died. Paddy and I go to visit her and her mother and sisters to offer our condolences. While I'm sitting with Jenny and her older sister Katia, Paddy is talking to their mother, Madam Michelle. It was her mother that has just passed away. We stay for twenty minutes then say goodbye.<br />
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"Fucking hell..." We're in the car, Paddy looks tired. "What's up man?" I ask him. "Madam Michelle was asking me for everything - my bed, my table, my mattress, anything I can give her once All Hands leaves." I can see the frustration in his face. "<b>Your mother just died. </b>For fuck's sake<b> </b>can you stop for just one minute and grieve?" It is endless. Today, here in my room, I hear a knock. Ornela, Madam Michelle's youngest daughter, Jenny's little sister, is at the door. "Qwen? Qwen?" "Hold on a sec sweetie." I open the door and she's there. We talk for a bit. She asks me a question. "Qwen, can you buy a painting from my mom? We need money to go to Jeremie." Jeremie is where their grandmother lived. She's talking about the funeral. My heart melts, but I've learned a long time ago that I have to draw a line. "I'm sorry sweetie, I don't have money for that right now." I hate myself for even saying it, but I know I've done a lot to help her family. Jenny is back in school because of me and some of my friends and family I reached out to. Seeing her finish high school is a personal goal of mine. I have to keep that in my sights and put blinders on for everything else. A week ago Jenny called me, she tells me Katia is really sick, that she has to go to the hospital. She asks me if I can pay for it. My heart hurts again, but I repeat the line I've learned to live by. "Sorry Jenny, I don't have money for that right now." "OK Qwen. It's OK." Jenny, eighteen and whip smart, knows me pretty well. She's been on the receiving end of my anger when she tries to push the boundaries of my charity. She's heard my rants on Haiti and the culture of dependence and expectance. She also knows I really care for her and her family. Still, the requests don't stop. They won't stop until I leave. Even then they won't stop. Facebook chat post-Haiti often involves requests for money from people I know here.</div>
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I came to Haiti very much guilty of believing good intentions were enough, and I certainly had the rose-colored glasses. I knew a bit about the idea of the white savior industrial complex, but didn't know enough to realize I was playing right into it. I believed people inherently do want to improve their lot, and will work hard to see that happen. I also believed myself to be a fairly altruistic person. I'm not so sure about that any more. And while I never came here thinking I could "save Haiti" (an incredibly egotistical idea to begin with), I also didn't realize the importance of allowing yourself to truly appreciate the small things before the big things break you down.</div>
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I still believe in helping people. I still believe my heart is in the right place. But I question myself more these days, and question what I'm doing and how I'm doing it. I question whether the work I've done here will really even make any difference.<i> </i>Is it even working? We'll know that as we conduct final follow-ups over the next two months, now that production and installations are nearly finished. I'm wary though. Every biosand filter I've ever seen in Haiti that was not one of ours was broken and unused. Just today I went to get a sandwich and found four or five of them in front of the sandwich shop, all in various stages of malrepair, waiting to be turned to rubble and probably used to patch holes in the street. The problem is we're <i>giving</i> people a "solution". They tell us they want it, but it's not of their own design. And yes, while I have spoken to families we've given filters to and heard from them they are getting sick less, and they no longer fear cholera, I also know of families that never used the filter to begin with, and only wanted to be in the program because their 100 gourdes contribution got them both the filter and a new Culligan bottle, which is worth 250 gourdes. Is that our mistake? Probably. Is there an easy work around to it? Not that I can think of. Asking for a contribution of more than 250 gourdes will guarantee that truly poor families will not be able to get a filter, and not providing a Culligan bottle (or any other safe water storage container) will result in families using open buckets instead, which we've tested and know 95% of the time result in re-contaminated water. It's a small problem in the grand scheme of things, but it demonstrates the complexity of trying to "help" people.</div>
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If I were to do it all again, I wouldn't design a solution. It isn't my place to do that. What I'd do is try and be a useful resource for a group of people or a community that have a much better understanding of their problems than I do, and want to work together toward finding solutions. I wouldn't come in as the guy with the answer. I'd come in as the guy willing to try and help them in any way possible as they find their own answer, and act as the bridge between that answer, and the money and resources needed to make it happen. </div>
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Or, perhaps if I really wanted to help, I wouldn't ever come to Haiti to begin with. I'd keep my fight at home in the United States, rallying people to try and build awareness that places like Haiti suffer because of policies benefitting our government, our corporations, and ultimately, ourselves. Policies created by our politicians, sometimes with our consent (the Iraq War) and sometimes as a result of special interests (<a href="http://www.democracynow.org/2010/1/22/in_landmark_campaign_finance_ruling_supreme" target="_blank">the Supreme Court's campaign finance reform ruling</a>), result in massive problems for other people in the world. Sometimes I wonder if that truly ever can be remedied. </div>
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Nature has a distinct element to it that is both brutal and undeniable: to be alive means to take care of you and yours before all else. There are rare exceptions to that rule, but they are just that - rare exceptions. The lioness doesn't feel guilt when she brings down the days-old gazelle, despite knowing the gazelle could never hope to challenge her. Is it the same for us? We may all be part of the same species, but we've always cordoned ourselves off in distinct groups, be it religious, racial, or geopolitical, and time and again worked to improve our groups at the expense of other groups. We are not a peaceful species. We are not enlightened beings. And history has shown time and again that, like the lioness, we show no remorse or mercy when faced with a weaker opponent. I sometimes wonder what the Taino people, Haiti's original inhabitants, were like. I'll never be able to know. They were raped, murdered and enslaved to extinction at the hands of the Spanish. There are no more Tainos in the world. </div>
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Is it naive to believe we can ever change this part of being human? I've often wondered this. If we ever had a chance at change, now would be the beginning of it. The internet and advancements in communication and transportation have made the world a much smaller place. I'd like to think that will lead to a greater mutual understanding of the fact that we are all, indeed, human. It might, or it might not. I often think we will have to evolve to the point that the idea of religion is cast aside, that the idea of nation is cast aside, that the way we define ourselves (white, black, Christian, Muslim, American, Haitian) have to be abandoned. Without first accomplishing that, we will always have a way to cordon ourselves off from others, to group up, and to grow to believe that our group is the most important group. Those groups must be broken for us to advance.<br />
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It makes me think of something a friend of mine who works in Rwanda told me recently. She told me that the majority of Rwandan children today do not know if they are Tutsi or Hutu. Their parents do not tell them. She told me that it is illegal to ask someone if they are Tutsi or Hutu. She told me that all forms of personal identification no longer have the words "Tutsi" or "Hutu" on them. She also told me Rwanda is one of the more progressive and advanced countries she's visited in Africa. That came at an incredibly high cost, but maybe that's what it takes. The EU, flawed though it is, and in and of itself a group, was born out of the desire for integration that was the result of two devastating wars that killed entire generations of Europe's people. I'd like to think we can learn enough from our history to be able to continue that process of integration without the prerequisite of mass suffering, but maybe that is indeed a prerequisite. If so, there's certainly suffering enough to go around. The world's groups are still devouring each other. The question is, if we do not feel we are affected by it, do we care enough to try and stop it? And, the skeptic in me asks, if we do care enough to try and stop it, why? What do we stand to gain? #5 - true altruism is an incredibly rare thing.</div>
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Indeed, a lot of questions, not a lot of answers, and a fair amount of pondering. If nothing else, Haiti has given me that, and that, ultimately, is a good thing. An engaged thinker is a humbled thinker. I do not yet claim to be either, but I aspire to be both.<br />
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<i>Note - thank you to <a href="http://www.shotgunshackblog.com/" target="_blank">Shotgun Shack</a> for cross-posting this over at her blog. <a href="http://shotgunshackblog.com/2012/04/25/the-aid-bitchslap/" target="_blank">Check it out here.</a></i></div>
</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com46tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-72437372110976023882012-03-30T15:00:00.000-07:002012-03-30T15:00:13.621-07:00Day 303: Cassie Comes BackA good friend of mine from back during my first stint in Haiti recently returned for an uber-quick trip to do some filming for All Hands. It was great to see her. A quick summary of her time here, including a fun early AM run to the beach (along with some kick ass photos, as to be expected) here:<br />
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<a href="http://cassieangeline.com/2012/jacksonvillebeach/" target="_blank"><b>March 4th, 2012: Haiti, the (underwater) wrap-up. </b></a></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-80367403959428172802012-03-29T10:52:00.000-07:002012-03-29T11:11:34.590-07:00Day 302: The End GameAnd so, as my time in Haiti comes to a close, it seems my blogging slows down, which I should probably make an effort to counter, but I don't seem to have the same drive (or perhaps energy) to share as I once did. Now that I have a proper bedroom I really must admit, coming back from the office, hitting the bed, and grabbing a book is pretty much heaven for me. I tend to repeat that pattern quite frequently.<br />
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That said, this seems an appropriate time to write, as some big changes have happened in terms of my immediate future, and while some are frustrating, I am, more than anything, excited at what is to come.<br />
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First things first, Project Leogane is coming to an early close. Without going into too many details, All Hands finds itself in a situation right now where continuing to fund Haiti - now over two years after the quake - is proving to be an exercise in futility. A decision had to be made, which balanced Project Leogane against the overall financial health of the organization, and, unsurprisingly, the AHV board decided Project Legoane had to finish so All Hands can continue. I'd imagine this is a decision that many small organizations have found themselves having to make, as, afterall, this isn't a business. We depend on outside funding. When that goes away, we go away. Funding can be fickle. Haiti fell out of the news a long time ago. The funding tends to follow suit. So here we stand: the final day of work for almost everyone on the ground in Haiti is April 27th, 2012. A few people will stay on, myself and Paddy being the two who will effectively be the last All Hands members to leave Haiti (more on that below), but as it stands now, nearly all local and international staff leave Project Leogane the 27th.<br />
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The news took the wind out of our sails for a while, but, regardless of the reasons for it happening, it makes sense when I step back and look at it from the perspective of the higher ups. Yes, there are elements at play that do frustrate me, as many of us on the ground here feel our programs, which could be argued are the best programs the organization has ever run, are being cut due to decisions made above us that didn't have the desired outcome and have thus forced this hand. That may or may not be true, but I realize that it is easy to play the blame game, and to me, that seems pointless right about now. At the end of the day, I know what is happening on the ground in Haiti, and I know a bit of what is happening in the circles above, but I'd be wrong to assume I know the details behind the decision to close the project, and as such pointing fingers seems a base thing to do.<br />
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So we'll keep it at this: I'm sad to see the project close early, mostly due to the impact it could have on our local staff, but I was and remain incredibly thankful that I got to be a part of it. I don't think that what I've been lucky enough to help do here could have happened for me in any other organization. And yes, while Project Leogane is closing early, we can still be incredibly proud of the work we did, and the many thousands of people we helped. As an organization, All Hands stretched itself further than it had ever dared to before in doing what it did here, and once the current financial hurdles are (hopefully) cleared, I believe the lessons learned and experienced gained as a result of Project Leogane will be a major stepping stone toward future growth and improvement within the organization. When it's all said and done, I can't see how anyone could argue Project Leogane was anything but a success. We did what we came here to do: help people help people. That's a beautiful thing.<br />
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So what's next? Well, as mentioned above, while most everyone else will be leaving Haiti at the end of April, Paddy and myself will not. We recently finalized a partnership with GOAL, the large Irish NGO, to build and install 400 biosand filters for their beneficiaries in and around Gressier. While we plan on finishing the installations before April 27th, we do need to conduct two months of follow-ups with the families to make sure they have the support they need to use the filters over the long run. As such, Paddy, myself, and a few of our local staff will remain in Haiti until the end of June to see that through. We'll likely be staying at the base of a friend of ours, while still working for All Hands. Should be interesting. It will be strange to be the final two, but I do like the idea of being able to finish (or ideally, hand off to another organization) the program we helped start back in July 2010. I like the completeness of it - from beginning to end.<br />
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After June? Two potential options as of right now. The first involves staying in Haiti for another month working, temporarily, for a larger NGO on a specific project they want me to do, then heading out to Spain in August to spend a month with a friend of mine I've not seen in ten years before heading to London and graduate school in September. The second would be to leave Haiti in July, head to Spain for two months instead of one, potentially work for the NGO from there, and then head to the UK come September. Nothing set in stone yet, and both of those largely depend on my ability to secure the funding I need to pay for grad school. London, and King's College, are not cheap.<br />
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Much more to write about (Carnaval in Les Cayes, a trip to Haiti's northern coast, learning the hard way not to put everything you value in the back of a truck in PAP, a reconnection with old friends, etc.) but at the moment I'm in Santo Domingo, and the little restaurant across the way beckons with good food and cold beer.<br />
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Hasta pronto.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0Calle Palo Hincado, Santo Domingo, República Dominicana18.469799477625081 -69.8905134201049818.46791697762508 -69.892980920104975 18.471681977625082 -69.888045920104986tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-41152927212626030622012-02-15T19:48:00.000-08:002012-02-16T08:55:55.208-08:00Day 258: Thoughts On A PerspectiveA few weeks ago a girl I met and spent some time with shortly after my returning to Haiti in June of last year returned to Haiti herself, and spent four days with me here in Leogane before heading north for a project. I enjoyed the time we spent together, but it was certainly different than before. That was OK with me, but I think it bothered her somewhat, and being a talented and candid writer, she <a href="http://takinroot.wordpress.com/2012/02/02/its-450-in-t" target="_blank">wrote an entry on her blog</a> sparked by the change she saw in our interaction. It is a good entry, and certainly deals with one of the most difficult elements of being here in Haiti for a longer period of time, in which you start to lose faith in the people you're here trying to help, but it missed the mark when it attributed that to the change in me. I don't think that's what caused the shift in me, but it got me thinking nonetheless, so I'd like to take a bit of time to address her entry with an entry of my own.<br />
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To start, she was and is right in saying I've changed. I have. I have in respects to how I engaged with her, as I have in respects to how I engage with most everyone and everything. That has been an ongoing process since arriving here for the first time in July of 2010, but it's become most apparent the last few months. Whereas before I tended to lean toward being social and goofy and a bit debaucherous during particularly inspired moments, I now opt to spend the majority of my non-working hours by myself. Whereas before I'd likely visit the local watering hole to drink a few beers with friends, or chat up a pretty volunteer for the simple fun of flirting, I now keep the company of my books more than most other company, and choose to sleep early and often for the simple joy of sleeping. If you didn't know me well, really well, you'd assume something would be amiss there - to those that don't know me that well, and therefore never get an insight into the more quiet, sensitive and uncertain parts of myself, there tends to be the assumption that I am always and forever the loud, charismatic half-man half-boy that takes the external stage. That is certainly part of who I am, but it isn't the whole. It is the half that gets the attention, because it is the half that is seen. There is an internal stage as well, with an entirely different player on it. Very few people here in Haiti have seen that player. I can count them on my fingers: Paddy, Mathilde, Jenni, Leslie, Simon, James, Cassie, Joe, Mariana, Paul. All of them, save Paddy and James, are gone.<br />
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Pulling into myself, "shutting down" as she called it, isn't so much a change in my character as it is a change in what parts of my character I'm choosing to engage. Is that a result of Haiti? Yes, in some ways, and no in others. Haiti can certainly be a difficult place to be for a long period of time. By the nature of being foreign here, a blan, there is attention heaped on me constantly by the people - the strangers in the streets calling out to me, the kids with their ribboned hair smiling and waving (which always makes me smile in return), the young men shouting from their motos, the pretty girls quick to tell me they love me in their funny half-English, still unsure of my name, trying to secure a different future. Some of those interactions are light, some fun, some interesting, but most simply fired quickly and without any real substance - repetitions that, taken alone make no impact, but strung together day after day begin to wear. Becoming conversant in Creole is both a blessing and a curse in regards to them. Yes, I like that I can now understand what people say when they talk to (or at) me, but often what they say is frustrating, and stale. "I'm hungry." Yea, I know. At this point, I mask the annoyance with humor. "You're hungry? Me too! Have any food?" That usually surprises them, and sends any others within ear shot into hysterics. "Blan pale Kreyol! Blan grangou!" Yes, I do speak Creole, but no, I'm not actually hungry.<br />
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If anything, Haiti has resulted in me seeking my own company for the simple fact that not doing so results in fatigue. That isn't a negative reflection of the country, but rather who I am in the country, and also the conditions I've lived in for the last two years. Remove Haiti entirely and I probably would still have chosen the more removed path as a result of living in Belval Plaza for eighteen months - everything shared, nothing save a tent (which wasn't accessible during the day given the heat) to call your own, to retreat to. There's precious little balance there. Now that I'm in a house, with my own room, with a lock on the door, I'm not surprised in the least that I'm opting to spend the majority of my time there, with the door locked.<br />
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Outside of that, I also now have post-Haiti ponderings crashing around in my head daily. My focus, when not on the program I'm here helping to run, is on what is coming next. I've been accepted to study at a great university in London. London holds a lot of significance for me, not simply for the fact that it is a big, busy, modern city (and therefore certainly a dramatic switch-up from Leogane) with a lot of opportunity should I apply myself well, but also because there is someone of special importance to me there. A part of myself has remained reserved for her, and while I have no idea what will come of it, I do know that that too has often given people the wrong impression about my state of mind, about me and where I'm at. I've had many moments since my time with her where I found myself unable to cross a certain level of connection with others. It isn't something I feel embarrassed or ashamed of, if anything it is quite the opposite - I am totally comfortable talking about it, when questions are asked. It seems wrong not to. I appreciate candidness. Besides, it doesn't have anything to do with those others I might find myself with. Indeed, I've met and gotten close to some people that, had the situation been different, I could easily see myself going further with. But it hasn't played out that way yet, and I can see how that limitation could be interpreted as some general malaise - the byproduct of being in this environment, sad (and sometimes hopeless) that it often is.<br />
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But the truth is, I'm not lost in some malaise. I'm not shut down. I'm not burned out. I'm simply quiet. I'm still. I'm thinking. I'm reading and writing letters and driving unknown roads on the weekends for the simple joy of going somewhere new, and for the simple joy of driving itself. I'm contemplating my future. I'm saving my energy for when it is needed. I'm saving my money for when it is needed. Am I a hermit? Perhaps a bit, but I assure you, if you put on a great drum and bass track with some volume behind it, you'll soon find me bouncing around, smiling. That isn't something a shut down, shuttered person would do. The broken don't dance. I'm not broken. Not yet any way. And you know what? If I do break, there's something in that I'm OK with. Breaking allows you time and space to examine the now-scattered aspects of who you are, of what kind of life you are living. It allows vision to see parts otherwise hidden. There's a lot of beauty in that, because, blessed with that opportunity, and the clarity it often brings to those who see it for what it is, a life can be remade to resemble something closer to authentic. I've broken before. I wouldn't change those experiences for anything. If Haiti does end up breaking me, not opening me, not shifting me, but truly breaking me, well, we'll see what comes of it eh? But that hasn't happened yet, and I don't see it happening before I leave. I'm at home here now. I'm used to this. It's a strange home, but it is my home. I've had moments of weakness, and those moments have certainly exposed and allowed parts of myself often overlooked to take a larger role in defining who I am, but I haven't broken. Haiti has made me stronger than it has weak.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0Léogâne, Haiti18.5108333 -72.633888918.495776300000003 -72.6536299 18.5258903 -72.6141479tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-80677624341626419592012-02-08T17:02:00.000-08:002012-02-08T18:37:59.065-08:00Day 251: Community Engagement Is The Name Of The Game<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<span style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Our current biosand filter beneficiary community, Jean Jean, is the furthest one we've yet worked in, and comes with a few logistical challenges. Besides the distance, Jean Jean is at the end of a long, narrow dirt road, which dead ends into the "center" of the community, if it can be called that. Most of the people who live there, however, live away from the road, either up the side of the mountain, or across the river in a subsection of Jean Jean known as Jean Jean Two (keep it simple stupid!). Normally, our installation teams can get close enough to the homes we'll be installing the filters into that getting the filters from our truck to the homes isn't a problem but that isn't the case in here. Problem. </span></div>
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<span style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Solution? Community engagement! We've asked all families that want to get a filter to help us in moving them from our truck to their homes, and it's worked great. Now, when our installation team arrives with the filters, we have the beneficiaries at the drop spot, ready with donkeys and motos to take their filters to their homes. In exchange, we lower the contribution amount we ask for their filter, so it's a win-win for everyone. Sure, it's minor in the grand scheme of things, but small victories should be celebrated. So, on that note, a few photos from the field...</span></div>
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1. Belval Plaza is gone. I'm writing this from my room in the new house in the neighborhood of Chatulet. My OWN room. Yes. I even have a bed. With a mattress. Life is good.<br />
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2. New office too. In theory this keeps work / life balance. Doesn't work that way, but the new office is a much improved version of the old one.<br />
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3. Break in the Dominican was alright. Las Terrenas wasn't really my cup of tea, but I was with good people. Think next time I travel though I'll go solo. I find when I do have downtime, I want to be alone.<br />
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4. The biosand filter program is looking at a big year ahead. Lots of interest from other NGOs and even the Haitian government in potentially partnering with us, so that's cool. Lots of work though. LOTS of work (hence no updates).<br />
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5. I got into grad school in the UK. King's College London - MA in Disasters, Adaptation & Development. Not decided on whether or not I'm going to that specific program, but King's interests me. It is in the heart of London, one of the top schools in the UK, and everyone I've spoken to that's been there tells me it's great. So that's cool. Now to figure out how to pay for it...<br />
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6. Post-Haiti ponderings. I've got a lot on my mind around that. The next steps following Haiti could be some of the most life-defining. So many key aspect of a life are in play post-Haiti: love, education, career. It could all come together in some beautiful way, or it could all fall apart. I need to get my head in the post-Haiti game, but at the moment I truly can't. I'm too busy. Going to have to carve out some balance. At the moment I've got none. I've been OK with that for a while, but that is changing now. The last thing I want is to leave Haiti with everything to come half-figured out. I've given a lot of myself to this country, this organization and this program, and that was something I chose to do, something I wanted to do, but I'm at the point now where I know if I don't draw a line in the sand, I'll resent it later. All of this will end in August. My life won't. I need to take the time now to make sure I continue in a way that I'm proud of, and moves me closer to what I want. I'm by no means done here - this is where I want to be - but I do need to create the space I need to start to get ready for what's coming next as well.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-88729584893254167802011-12-26T18:37:00.000-08:002011-12-26T18:37:24.789-08:00Day 207: Closing Out 20112010 opened my life to me. 2011 gave me the perspective and confidence to live it authentically.<br />
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2010 gave me Haiti. 2011 gave Haiti me. 2010 gave me love. 2011 tested my resolve to continue to believe in it. 2010 brought one of my closest friends back into my life. 2011 allowed us to see just what we were capable of doing together. 2010 began my process of becoming a man I can respect. 2011 made it possible for me to say that I am.<br />
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I don't know how I'd try and write about this year in any coherent way. Not yet anyway. I think in some ways I'm still just trying to make sense of it all. It's been a year that has been more challenging than perhaps any other, and also the one I can feel the most proud for having lived. The highs have been incredible, and the lows intense. I've been many places this year: Haiti, New York, London, Oxford, La Paz, the Dominican Republic, North Carolina, Los Angeles, San Francisco, a small storage unit in the Sierra foothills full of mom's things. Those places all have memories, some good, some bad, some meaningful, others not. I'm not ready to try and make sense of it all, if I even have to. I suppose I just want to give 2011 a small thank you before it passes. So thank you. The man I am ending this year is much stronger and more grounded in himself than he was when he started it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-82678940732491474832011-12-21T03:45:00.000-08:002011-12-21T04:20:26.810-08:00Day 202: Ovwa Belval PlazaAnd so the final morning dawns here at the base, and Project Leogane, as I've known it, begins its final day. Just said goodbye to some friends, and many, many more will be leaving tomorrow (I'll be leaving with them, but they won't be coming back) and the base is looking skeletal, with only a few people left here until Friday, when the move-out is complete. Tonight is going to be a powerful night. No time to write more now, but I'm sure I'll want to once I'm in the Dominican and have time to relax and feel everything.<br />
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Next year is near, and I'm excited, but this year was huge, and so much of that has to do with this place. While I'm ready to move on, I will miss it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-14313208991923437262011-12-05T19:02:00.001-08:002011-12-06T05:56:45.672-08:00Day 186: Transitions & ReflectionsThis is a strange time for Project Leogane. In two weeks, the vast majority of the people here will be gone, and the project will transition into its final phase. Belval Plaza, which we've called home since February 2010, will be gone. We're shrinking, and we don't need this big, broken, and yes, even beautiful space anymore. The memories I've had here won't ever leave, but I'll be. No, I'm not leaving Haiti, but many of the people I've come to call friends are. It will be something akin to a skeleton crew come 2012 - people running programs, a few skilled international volunteers, and our local staff.<br />
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I don't have it in me at the moment to write something like a retrospective, both because it's late and I'm tired, and because I'm not done yet so the motion would be premature, but I am aware that much of what I know of what it means to be in Haiti will change significantly in two weeks.<br />
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Paddy and I and a few good friends will leave the country for fourteen days, heading east to the Dominican Republic for some much needed R&R at a house we are renting. I am looking forward to it, but in the back of my head I can't help but know that come December 22nd (the day we leave) I will have said goodbye to something that has, perhaps more than anything before it, defined my life. It won't be here when I return. In some ways it is sad, in others it is needed. I can't help but be excited at the prospect of once again having my own room, however small it may be, in a house that allows a certain level of privacy. That is needed. For all of what I might project, I'm in some ways a private person. When I cannot find a place to let that part of myself come out, when it needs to come out, it begins to wear on me. Tents don't work. Yes, they offer some private space, but under limited conditions. No sane person would dare go to their tent to seek privacy in daylight hours. The sun turns them into saunas. At night, they are welcoming, but the walls don't get much thinner than a tent. You're still far from private.<br />
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But still, even though I need some escape from it, the communal element of this place will be missed, and more than that, what this place represents for me. I came here to see if what I thought I might want to do with my life is in fact something I want to do. I do. I came here looking for fundamental shifts in who I am. They've happened. I didn't come here looking for a deep and sometimes painful yet ultimately beautiful connection with someone, but Haiti, in her frustrating and yet somehow knowing way, gave me that too. All of that happened in this place. It has been the richest experience of my thirty years.<br />
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I've been harsh recently, frustrated with this country and her people, but I've come to recognize the ebb and flow of life here. There are moments of true joy - a sense of belonging and being that cannot be matched anywhere I've been before. There are moments of intensity that can be both beautiful or sad or both, which work to expand the possibility and understanding of what it means to live. I've written of this before. When you allow yourself to try and be integrated and aware of life far outside the realm of what you know and are comfortable with, deep shifts in the fabric of character happen. There are also moments of sheer frustration or disgust. I used to write them off as some different something I didn't know and needed to respect, because after all, I am a foreigner and this isn't my country, but I've let that go. Some things are universal. Cultures and countries can become excuses hidden behind. Allow yourself honesty and you'll know what should or should not be. Haiti has a powerful way of breaking that truth open in people.<br />
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I went lambi diving with some local kids the other day. After a week of work that left the BSF staff exhausted, I managed to get my hands on the keys for the Mahindra. Paddy and Billy and I piled in and we took off. It felt great to drive. I love driving in this country, despite having this unnerving feeling that if Haiti is going to do me in, it will be on her roads. But not then. We drove for an hour, out to Petit Goave, simply to get away from everything, to a place we barely knew. Our original plan was to find a beach, any comfortable one, and buy seafood and beer and eat and drink and let it be. We didn't manage to pull that off in Petit Goave. Despite having a few beaches that apparently blow the mind, we couldn't find them so we doubled back around and headed to Paradise Beach, a place I've been many times before, but gets the job done. It was nice. It is very much a tourist place, if anything in Haiti can be called that, choked full of international NGO workers, and we didn't set out looking for that, but we were happy to settle in regardless. Wanting some alone time and loving the water, I grabbed my fins and mask and went out, and met two young men hunting for conch (lambi), one of my favorite foods in Haiti. I asked them to show me how they did it, and they tried. After an hour with them, I realized I was far beyond their capability to teach. Some things cannot be learned in an afternoon. But, failure aside, it made me appreciate Haiti a bit more, which has been needed these days. It made me feel something akin to a connection to her people, which I haven't felt much in the last month. It made me happy, and made me smile, as ridiculous as that must have looked with a dive mask on.<br />
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I didn't catch any lambi, but I walked out of the sea renewed, and with some needed perspective. I'll never make excuses for this country, but I won't allow myself to settle into the comfort of stereotypes either, despite how tempting it proves to be as the months here continue to erode the fascination, leaving the real. Life and people and places cannot be expressed in black and white. I cannot allow myself to believe that they can.<br />
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Haiti, and <a href="http://www.hands.org/" target="_blank">All Hands</a>, thank you for what you've allowed me to develop, and let's make the next eight months memorable yea?<br />
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Oui.<br />
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In other news, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXT4dxCrmEI" target="_blank">listen to this.</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435249848250418400.post-59750028344228557672011-12-02T07:04:00.001-08:002011-12-03T04:23:43.162-08:00Day 183: Easy Haiti...Sometimes this country has a way of grouping together events that can challenge you or break you in some way or piss you off. These last few days have certainly been that.<br />
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Day before yesterday, early in the morning en route to the Port-au-Prince airport and then on to Pierre Payen to pick up some members of the BSF team, I saw my first murder victim. He was a man, maybe in his thirties, hard to tell, dead on the side of the highway. At first I thought he was a victim of a hit and run, but when I asked Edzner, our driver, he pointed out that the man's hands were bound behind his back. He looked roughed up, deep cuts likely from a machete all across his body. His skull was opened. Someone had tossed a tire on him. He was just there, on the side of the road, very much dead, very much not seeming to cause concern for anyone. We didn't stop. Some things you don't get involved in. Edzner told me he'd seen it many times before. "Haiti is a violent country. People kill each other here."<br />
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Yesterday spared me reminders of death, but brought plenty of frustration. Out in the field in the afternoon with the field team, we had a difficult time getting back to the base. First we were slowed by a traffic jam caused by a UN team from Korea trying to pull a torched UN dumptruck out of a riverbed. Seeing things burned by angry mobs isn't something new for me, but the stupidity of destroying one of only a few large, heavy-duty dumptrucks now in Leogane helping to clear rubble so people can rebuild got to me. Have a problem with the UN, or specifically, with MINUSTAH? I can understand that, to a point, but in torching a dumptruck, the community was only slowing down recovery efforts. It seemed short-sighted and ignorant. After finally getting past the wreck, waving hello to the Koreans, who looked worn down, we got stopped again. This time, some fool driver decided, that, since he had a flat tire, he would change it in the middle of the narrow street. The tiniest bit of planning would have made it possible for the road to be open for cars to get by, but no, everyone was blocked. I was frustrated enough that I let him have it in Kreyol. "Genius aren't you? You couldn't think to move your car five feet in that direction? Now nobody can get by, and you're taking your sweet time changing that tire. You're really not that smart are you?" As I wrote about <a href="http://www.thesenewboots.com/2011/10/day-149-honeymoon-is-over.html" target="_blank">in a previous entry</a> my patience for stupidity is at an all-time low, even if I understand that this country doesn't teach people to think the way First World countries do for their citizens. Still, this wasn't a byproduct of a shitty educational system, this was someone just deciding to do things the easiest way at the expense of everyone else. You see that a lot in Haiti. People can have the tendency to do what will help them, so be it if others get screwed or inconvenienced. After my yelling at him, the guy just stood there with a stupid grin on his face, looking at me. Nothing. We turned the truck around, and took the long way back.<br />
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Thirty minutes ago, sitting here in the office, I got news of <a href="http://www.defend.ht/politics/articles/municipal/2133-tragedy-8-people-charred-20-seriously-injured-in-bus-accident-haiti" target="_blank">a terrible accident</a> near School 19, the newest school All Hands is building. In front of 31 of our volunteers, a school bus and a dumptruck somehow collided on the freeway, plowing into numerous motorcycles full of people waiting at the intersection. A lot of them died or were knocked unconscious. A telephone pole was knocked down, bringing live power lines down with it, electrocuting the people caught in the mayhem. I can't image what that must have looked like, but the base is quiet now, with a lot of shell shocked people who witnessed and tried to help now trying to process it. It reminds me <a href="http://www.thesenewboots.com/2011/07/day-48-in-remembrance.html" target="_blank">of when Chris died.</a> It reminds me of <a href="http://www.thesenewboots.com/2011/10/day-138-how-to-build-coffin.html" target="_blank">how I felt the day after the little girl died.</a> One of our BSF production team members had a cousin die in the accident. Caritas Czech, our current partner for BSF, lost their cook. Thankfully, we didn't lose any of our volunteers or staff, but it still has a chilling effect. I've waited, on the back of a moto, at that exact intersection many times before. Timing, as it tends to, has so much to do with how a life unfolds.<br />
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I don't share this to be grim, even though I know I can be fascinated by the macabre. I think, like I have before, that for me, when something truly sad or bad happens, it is important that it is remembered, particularly when innocents are lost because of it. These last few days feel as if they are deserving of being remembered.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17357494841889129917noreply@blogger.com0